It is downright insulting, and a deliberate invalidating of the patient experience.It is beyond patronising.
It is downright insulting, and a deliberate invalidating of the patient experience.It is beyond patronising.
Because of course in 30yrs i'd never taken on a gym membership after doing nothing for a yr. I'd never spent a summer predominantly sitting on my arse and then started a full time job standing for 12hrs a day, & arrived home to go straight to bed utterly knackered. I'd never had a bout of influenza, never had a serious infection. Of course in their world none of that had ever happened in my 30 odd yrs of life pre-illness!
Indeed, if their hypothesis of aberrant beliefs> fear/avoidance> deconditioning> misinterpretation of normal sensations, were true, then one might conclude that i have somehow become severely brain damaged. - Since the human brain is designed to compare everything with what it already has a 'pigeon hole' for, - to classify & recognise it by pattern recognition. Then if i really were suddenly unable to accurately compare & contrast current bodily sensation with previous experiences of being normally & appropriately exhausted/in pain, versus experiences of being ill, then clearly i am brain damaged.
Precisely.Yes! This!
If this is just a misinterpretation of normal signals, why didn't I have this in the years before? Why could I just start up again after every week of flu, every broken bone, every period without serious exercise? As if we havent experienced any discomfort in our previous life, to not know the difference between normal and abnormal![]()
The mere fact that we are turning up in droves saying "what we're experiencing is not normal, it doesnt match what we've experienced before when we've done too much, it matches our experiences of being ill in the past"... that should be proof ON ITS OWN that there is something wrong.
That was a rant after my own heart. RantasticETA - Sorry all that was a bit of a rant. My patience with it all is wearing very thin this morning.
he he he...Example of secondary gain from false illness beliefs = Simon Wessely getting a Knighthood.
That was a rant after my own heart. Rantastic.
The bit that always gets me is the fact that, supposedly, we are Type A/overachiever personalities who, following some infection or other, had a total personality shift such that now we are activity avoiders who are too scared to do anything, despite sometimes decades of life previously spent pushing through illness and adversity. They want to have it both ways: blame us for having the “wrong” personality, and then blame us for for behaving in ways which are in complete contradiction to our supposed personality. Anything to avoid the obvious: that perhaps the issue isn’t behavioural. Perhaps the behaviour (minimising activity) is adaptive, rather than maladaptive.
That is SUCH a good point, & one i dont think i've ever really noticed before!!They cant have it both ways!
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hahaha brilliantI told him I thought he was on to something. He beamed. Yes, I went on, clearly I have a multiple personality disorder....I've managed to switch from being weak and feeble to a Type A in under 10 minutes!!
Cue spluttering.
My mother unfortunately had a fall and broke both legs last summer. A couple of weeks ago she went to her doctor to discuss the continuing pain. The doctor explained to her how strange it is that the brain can influence how much we perceive pain. My mother agreed that her brain was behaving very strangely and asked why it had stopped her perceiving pain in one leg but not the other. She left with a referral for an MRI scan shortly thereafter.
I understand the point you’re making LDI just find it amazing that in an obesity crisis with so many overweight children around somehow these crazies cant see that decondtioning is not the explanation for children with ME. There's no shortage of kids who need to lose a lost of weight who are perfectly capable of running around living a normal life, yet at the same time there are housebound or bedbound kids of normal weight who are obviously not deconditioned but have a serious medical condition.
And actually our pattern recognition "software" is not malfunctioning, so we can recognise what you're doing when you're being disingenuous, when you're trying to pull the wool over our eyes, when you're trying to reframe your bullsh*t in words you think we will accept because we are too stupid to recognise it. We can recognise it easily because we've seen it all before.