Normally I'd say that sort of question in a close relationship requires a slap round the face with a wet fish (him not you) but assuming he's worth hanging onto, this is what I would say as an explanation based on the available evidence:Hi, I have recently started a new relationship and my boyfriend has admitted to having a slight worry that he can ‘catch’ M.E. from me. Does anyone know something I could give him to read to reassure him that it isn’t contagious? Thanks
Does anyone know something I could give him to read to reassure him that it isn’t contagious? Thanks
Hi, I have recently started a new relationship and my boyfriend has admitted to having a slight worry that he can ‘catch’ M.E. from me. Does anyone know something I could give him to read to reassure him that it isn’t contagious? Thanks
Normally I'd say that sort of question in a close relationship requires a slap round the face with a wet fish (him not you) but assuming he's worth hanging onto, this is what I would say as an explanation based on the available evidence:
'while an initial infection is implicated in the onset of ME/CFS there is no evidence of any ongoing infection being the cause the condition, further the implicated infections include common disease agents, for example Epstein Barr virus, to which most people will have multiple exposures in their life without ever getting more than a cold or maybe a flu. The likelihood is that ME/CFS only manifests in people who have some kind of genetic vulnerability, and even that has only limited heritability and is certainly not transmissible. In what seem to be very rare case of partners both getting ME/CFS it appears this is just a random event where both individuals are exposed to a similar common illness and both have independently (and possibly very different) genetic vulnerabilities.'
Now tell him he owes you flowers (or some non allergy causing alternative) !
Not just the NHS. A ban on blood donation was brought in, in a number of countries following the XMRV debacle, Wikipedia is accurate on this:IIRC for a while the NHS didn't take blood transfusions from ME patients as a result but I don't believe they stipulate that anymore.
I've haven't any medical experience but I think this is what has happened too.In simple terms ME is not an infection but a reaction to an infection, like an allergy is a reaction to a food or drug.
Not just the NHS. A ban on blood donation was brought in, in a number of countries following the XMRV debacle, Wikipedia is accurate on this:
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Chronic_fatigue_syndrome#Blood_donation
"In 2010, several national blood banks adopted measures to discourage or prohibit individuals diagnosed with CFS from donating blood, based on concern following the 2009 claim of a link,[190] between CFS and a retrovirus which was subsequently shown to be unfounded. Organizations adopting these or similar measures included the Canadian Blood Services,[191] the New Zealand Blood Service,[192] the Australian Red Cross Blood Service[193] and the American Association of Blood Banks,[194] In November 2010, the UK National Blood Service introduced a permanent deferral of donation from ME/CFS patients based on the potential harm to those patients that may result from their giving blood.[195] Donation policy in the UK now states, "The condition is relapsing by nature and donation may make symptoms worse, or provoke a relapse in an affected individual."[196]
I put it in my will: no organ donation. I don't know. Maybe it won't do any harm. I just don't know. No one does.I personally would not donate blood/organs for several reasons:
I've told my family I'm not an organ donor for those reasons, but that ME researchers can have whatever tissues they want, and autism researchers can have dibs after that.
- Donating blood could harm my health. PwME may have low blood volume for example.
- There could be something in my blood that makes someone sick. I tend to think more chemicals than pathogens, but maybe we have high levels of common viruses or something.
- I doubt my organs would give someone ME, but nobody knows if they function poorly, which ones do, or how.
Hi, I have recently started a new relationship and my boyfriend has admitted to having a slight worry that he can ‘catch’ M.E. from me. Does anyone know something I could give him to read to reassure him that it isn’t contagious? Thanks