I remember an absolute incident once after some people had “unconscious bias” training. Basically they were confronted with the world-altering news that because everyone has some kind of unconscious bias, they did. They were so angry at being accused of something so awful. I mean furious...
People run out of patience. I’ve seen it a million times. Managers start getting all “right this has gone on long enough, this sickness needs to be resolved”
ok Jim, sorry it’s adding to your mental load that Bob got run over then they discovered he had cancer, I think you’ll find losing your...
I was very open, and wasn’t the only person with ME, a much longer term worker who was very vocal had it, and yet everybody claimed they didn’t know what I had or that I “got tired a lot”. And didn’t appreciate that I was allowed special treatment which others would have loved to have <sigh>...
Beautifully written, and also bleak.
When I was sliding downhill into moderate and desperately trying to hang on to my job, I faced the same choice.
And I don’t think I would have chosen differently because how do you explain quitting working to stop yourself getting more ill?
How much does it cost?
I would actually like to see an ally (e.g. someone who cares for a pwME) work through this mountain and quantify how long it took them, how long it would have taken the pwME and how useless it is.
It would make a good reel.
Bear in mind, when you increase activity you need to ensure you are stable at current levels. This consolidation period could be as long as a few……weeks!
I already do heart rate monitoring via Fitbit and visible. They also measure HRV and the RHR daily average changes most days.
I know when I’m exerting above normal, or resting below normal. I can measure my time upright through this. But not cognitive exertion, which tends to buildup then slow...
There was a very long, boring explanation about questionnaire validation methods IIRC, which is fine if you’re the Head of Marketing for Halifax Bank doing a customer satisfaction survey, but clearly hasn't helped in this scenario.
They have ME so you can’t say they don’t understand ME (blows...
Well AFAIK food and water are human rights, if anything that’s the human right denied to Very Severe patients and causes their death. If they're so concerned about human rights. Which they aren’t.
I know some NHS treatment clinics are just 12 week programmes. So in 3 months you can learn pacing, find your baseline and do graded pacing up therapy! Sounds great.
I wouldn’t expect a heart surgeon to say they had perfected a technique based on their knowledge and the individual patients needs, but not share what it is, leaving other colleagues unable to learn from them, leaving patients unsure of what their operation involved.
So I’m appalled that there...
Conversely - can we have evidence of the denial of the “human right to rehabilitation” which has sparked this unusual centre -ing of it?
It’s just that, none of the patient communities I know have complained that rehabilitation has been withheld from them. I mean, even your Paul Garners...
Brava @Trish I’m sorry you’re having to do all this, but it’s appreciated. You’ve gone to town on them. It’s fascinating, it’s almost an ME/CFS Science blog!
In my minds eye I’m seeing a pie chart of how much of a document refers to “increase” of activity (say, 25%) vs how many pwME have “found” their established baseline (say, 10%) then increased beyond it by choice, without consequence (about 1%)
The greatest work for pwME is getting used to...
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