Trish, thank you so much for your detailed reply and I really appreciate it.
I have similar misgivings,
@Gingergrrl, about commenting on what made someone else worse or better when we don't know their full circumstances, as with Whitney.
I think this is what bothered me the most, that a statement was made, as if it was fact, that a specific treatment made Whitney worse when he is not here to share his own opinion. I generally feel uncomfortable discussing people who are not here b/c I know it would make me uncomfortable if it was done re: me (not in a factual way and not if someone quoted my own words, but if someone attributed something to me which if I could reply, I might not feel was accurate). I think there was even a post on the other board in which Whitney's mom said she was not certain if Ritux had made him worse, vs. he would have worsened anyway, or he worsened due to a combination of other factor(s). I think sadly, we might never know.
And I think it is important that we celebrate and commiserate with each other when the outcomes are better or worse.
Absolutely, and this is one of the things I love about both boards, that we can celebrate victories and commiserate our misery (both medical and emotional/personal) with each other. I would never want this to change.
But it is also important for the sake of other readers that when someone tells us their health has improved as a result of a particular treatment, we point out when there is no clinical trial evidence that backs up that treatment as effective for others as well.
Absolutely and if Whitney were here and posted something, I would have no problem with anyone challenging him, as I have no problem with anyone challenging me re: the treatment path that I have chosen (with my doctors), b/c I am here to reply to it myself.
For example, I have followed with interest your experiences with IVIG and Rituximab, and celebrated with you the improvement in your health, and accept that in your case it seems to have been an effective treatment. But at the same time, I think it's good that the recent trial outcomes are highlighted, so others don't have their hopes unreasonably raised that it will work for them.
I absolutely want the recent trial outcomes highlighted and I have read every single post re: the Ritux trial on both boards with great interest and agree that it does not seem to be a viable option for ME/CFS (unless there are more to the results that will be coming out later re: potential responders and sub-groups). I have gotten hundreds of PM's over the past 1.5 years of people asking me if they should do IVIG and Ritux and every single time I have told them that 1) I cannot give medical advice 2) I do not know the specifics of their situation 3) And I refer them back to their own doctor(s).
I have no doubt that I am a responder to high dose IVIG and Rituximab but there is no scenario in which I would assume that my results apply to anyone else. I believe there are others out there like me, who are potential responders, and I post in the hopes that some day they will find my posts. But I believe the responder group has B-cell driven auto-antibodies causing their symptoms (and whether this is a sub-group of ME/CFS or a completely different disease, I still have no idea). I don't want to give anyone false hope, and don't even want to give myself false hope, LOL. I have no idea what happens to me once my treatment ends.
There is a part of me that would love for my response to be some kind of spontaneous remission b/c then it would be possible to sustain it once I am completely done with IVIG and Rituximab in the future (although I do not believe that it is spontaneous or random in my case and neither do my doctors). So I report the facts in my IVIG/Ritux thread on PR, and every time I've attempted to stop that thread, people have urged me to please continue it. So I am continuing it, both b/c of the incredible support I have received in it, and b/c I believe the info is something that people can research or take to their own doctor(s) and inquire about (re: high dose IVIG for auto-immunity, paraneoplastic syndromes and the required cancer checks, autoimmune POTS, etc).
Sorry this got so long-winded and I hope it made sense!