I saw the perfect comeback for that while watching an old episode of Ray Donovan last night (naughty language warning):
The woman sticking up for the man with Parkinson's is that friend/partner that we all wish we had. OK, maybe not the exact language, but the idea that we can speak up loudly and forcefully.
For decades I tried to go to my doctor's visits on my own, explain symptoms in a well organized way to my doctors, and I was still dismissed. I found that taking my husband with me, while I'm the one who has done all the research and who has direct insight into my symptoms, the older doctors often then turned to my husband and asked "is this what you see too?" or "is this what you believe?"
OMG - just speak to me. I remember buying my first car with my own earned money. The car salesman kept turning to my then boyfriend and asking him "What color car would she like?" "What do you think about tinted windows?". I wish I had a little of the woman in the video within me back then or within my boyfriend. Instead, I just threw up my hands and walked away in disgust.
5 years ago, prior to our MitoD diagnosis, a well known New York City neurologist at a top University Hospital again told my husband and I that my fatigue and other odd symptoms was the result of stress. I had a meltdown on the way home in the car, over the "stress diagnosis". My husband did see a mighty meltdown followed by not talking to him for an hour because I dearly wished he would have stood up for me against the "it's all due to "stress diagnosis" and been a little like the woman in the video. He said, calling the doc on it and going off on him wouldn't have helped anything. He's right, but I needed to release that steam. The woman in the video was in my head during that doctors appointment shouting similar things at hearing "it's just due to stress".