I am really having trouble following what you’re saying. My point was that I suspect that people are using PEM to describe things that aren’t actually PEM lately, not that people with other diseases can’t have PEM.
Please stop accusing people of gaslighting. No one is doing any such thing, and it’s not conducive to polite discussion.
But that cant be proven so if someone has Sjogrens you cant automatically claim they misunderstood what's PEM and think they have it but if they don't have Sjogrens then they automatically do have MECFS and If i tell that person they don't have MECFS I must be gaslighting them.