@NelliePledge thanks for that link it's useful....
In the managing stress section
Unless of course we're saying no to CBT or that we need to stop rather than pushing on with your shitty advice
Unless its the schedule of GET you've set for us
Except of course for the fact that we at the clinic are much better qualified to know your limits than you... so you
do need to feel guilty when you rest when
we've said you should be exercising, because thats lazy/avoidant/phobic... but not when
you think you should be doing things you need to give yourself permission to stop.
So it's all about 'be gentle with yourself, know your limits & give yourself permission to stop'... but only under our watchful eye.... dont think for yourself, take
our view of reality and give yourself permission to stop when
we say you should. We'll tell you when you've hit your limit.
I wonder if they are consciously aware that this kind of making it impossible to 'get it right', - no matter what you do, you will be doing it wrong because they are the arbiters & their opinion is basically whichever thing you're doing it will be the wrong thing, the wrong way around....
this is precisely,
precisely how domestic abusers behave. It's a classic controller/abuser MO.
Advice for sleep
They really do think we are utter imbeciles! I mean really, if i cant sleep because my neck's at the wrong angle... i'd never think to maybe use an extra pillow... because i really am
that stupid! My 5yr old niece knows you cant sleep if you're not comfy.
And in the activity mgmnt section educating people to think about & write down all the details of the goal 'i want to visit a friend'.... so you need to 'think about how you're going to get there'.... I mean really? do you??!!! I'd never have known that..... of course if
I wanted to go somewhere, without the help of this guide it would never occur to me to think about how i was going to get there! I mean i just expect to click my heels & miraculously transport like William ruddy Shatner!
FGS
I dont condone verbal abuse or violence of any description, but i really do wonder that ill people, in a lot of pain, do not simply lose their rags and explode. No wonder patients have gotten a rep for being hostile. I wouldnt patronise my 8yr old nephew like that, even he could tell you that in order to get somewhere you have to consider the best way to get there.