How common is ME/CFS, nobody knows. I think the estimates given are huge exaggerations of the real figures. Certainly in my country, it is not a very common illness. If it was as common as its supposed to be, more doctors would be seeing it in their practices. My gp has never come across it and believes in the illness. My occupational health therapist from work has never come across it either and she has a large practice. It just bugs me these figures that are pulled out of the air without anything concrete to back them up.
It depends how you define it for a start.....
I certainly can't speak for your country,but in the UK the estimate is about 250,000 ( I have seen some say it may be lower at about 125,000) We have seen attempt to inflate that figure to 600,000 by conflating it with chronic fatigue.
Under reporting will reduce numbers and may even minimize the problem therefore reducing the need for research. The fact that patients who are more severely affected are effectively invisible to society makes that easier. Patients who are out and about, but feel stigmatized, or ashamed of their illness won't be open about it.
On the other hand, inflating the figures may help grease the wheels when trying to sell cheap treatments (CBT).
I don't wish to denigrate your doctor or OT -they may be excellent, but if you are the only patient they have seen with it, could this possibly be because they don't recognize it when they see it. It seems difficult to diagnose in primary health care in the UK.
I have seen figures in the UK about prevalence per GP practice of a given size - can't remember the figures. They seemed to line up roughly with the estimated amount.
ETA - When I meet people I never volunteer that I have ME,though I may need to let them know I am ill. Partly because it isn't their business and partly because past experiences have led me to be cautious. That said in the last couple of years people I have recently met ask me if I have ME - because they recognize the signs they've seen in members of their own family.