Thanks for the great discussion so far, everybody! We've only been discussing this since yesterday morning but we've had lots of great contributions from more than twenty people and have made a lot of progress. Here's where I think we are:
- We have a priority order from @Jonathan Edwards that most seem happy with.
- We agree that at this stage, we're focusing on science-based information, not other supportive information such as benefits advice or useful aids for daily living.
- Several are interested in how to handle going into hospital, but there's disagreement over whether that should be with a 'passport' or a communication strategy. This might be something we could pick up later once we've got the top three priority items off the ground.
- We've agreed that the language should be simple and straightforward so that patients, clinicians and researchers can understand our documents equally and so that we don't have to write different documents for different audiences.
- We like the idea of eventually translating our output into different languages.
- We seem generally happy with the idea of a lead writer for each document who produces a draft and works on it with a small team in a private subforum before presenting it to the main forum for further comment before publication.
- An additional possibility would be for the lead writer to introduce the topic on a members-only thread to invite ideas and answer questions, allowing one or two weeks before starting their draft.
- Depending on who the lead writers are, one or two documents could be on the go in parallel.
- We think it would be a good idea to start with just one document, to try out our method.
I hope I've done the discussion justice!
And as a reminder, here are
@Jonathan Edwards' top seven proposed priorities (there are seven more):
1. What is ME/CFS? (Symptoms, diagnosis)
2. What is meant by PEM and why it is significant, its relation to fatigue and fatiguability
3. Prognosis, including variation over time and likely difference in young people
4. Treatments (the fact that there are none, apart from for individual symptoms such as insomnia and headache)
5. What PwME can do for themselves (pacing?)
6. The realities of severe and very severe ME/CFS and the need for evidence on how best to handle them
7. Environmental and food sensitivities, their management and impact on hospital care
I think we're already in a good place to start. Shall we begin by finding a lead writer (who will also essentially be the project leader) for Item #1, 'What is ME/CFS?'
Speak up if you want to do it!
If there are multiple candidates, we will need to think of a way to decide among them. All part of the learning process!
@Jonathan Edwards, I hope you'll consider being part of this...
[Edited to add] Prospective lead-writers! Would you like to give us a sense of your background that would make you a good fit for the role?
5. What PwME can do for themselves (pacing?)
I'm flagging this but hoping it's just because we are only at the 'got to title it something stage' but I have a real issue with the term pacing in particular or in reccommending it. I'm hoping the 'concept' is OK underneath but I'm not loving the title as it is. I think it needs to somehow cover more. And can't be 'just pacing' - although boy can we leather that term and how misused and abused it us, and tell people to watch out for how the ambiguity is used to mislead people into other things (where they are increasing stuff or someone want to micromanage certain bits and pretend other exertions either don't exist or 'dont count'). To me pacing in laymans terms isn't even a management strategy that's any good, and no better or more used than someone having to do that one big thing at the start of the day then radical rest until they are recovered (and that's my problem with selling it).
At the end of the day it will need to be about 'reduction' in exertion (of all kinds), including cumulatively, and increase in proper good environment and rest, and no amount of spreading things out can make that compromise/sacrifice/the invidious choices involved suddenly be magically possible - even if some pwme do become astoundingly tenacious and efficient at using their precious energy to pull off an astounding amount with compared to others, including by cutting out things by having grocery deliveries and not wasting energy on x, y, z anymore.
And I'd like to think we'd step past the 'theoretical' that so many clinic type things seem to play about with as example calendars and into the 'reality' where that drill or alarm going off for an hour this morning just wiped out my day from 10am. And now as I need to be able to function on a telephone call at 2pm tomorrow I will have to be in bed until then (or when my body wakes up recovered and OK whichever comes first), skipping shower and everything, and hope I can function by then.
I also think it almost needs to be thinking about a companion if it is only going to be to the pwme, which is 'what those close to pwme need to understand', not to tell them to monitor that the pwme is 'behaving themselves' but so they know how to not undermine them and what that might mean eg 'if someone says to you I need you to cook dinner, turn the music off now, pick me up because I can't drive - then just do it and don't question or discuss it right now'. Or how yes you might all need to move home if that building work is going to be going on like that for long term and there's nowhere in the home it can be escaped from.
For a 'work version' it would be things like 'not only do the adjustments, but do them fast because if you dilly for six months leaving them eg on full time with
that issue then by six months in they'll need that reduction to be to 2 days not 3-4 as they'll be iller'. And 'that's great you've given them somewhere to rest but be aware whether it is actually a long walk there and back making it moot on an energy front'. And to remember that any of these talks about 'how to help' or processes add more workload/energy expenditure on top of normal work often
Energy conservation and understanding the impact of exertion (of all kinds including eg noise) as general principles of 'what we have to do' I can sort of live with but in the making others aware that is the tyranny/job we are having to life our lives under - not a panacea, and certainly spreading things out isn't
possible for many of us eg where you have a lot of medical appointments (wayyy above threshold) vs severe ME/CFS can be a common situation/even norm that many live under, where you are 'saving up for a shower once a week' then paying for it with PEM as an approach.
I think physiosforme did well on this, particularly remembering their early social media stuff where they 'got' that a lot of people were having to use 'radical rest' to 'do life' and cope with a world that didn't 'fit' the tiny units pacing would assume/those more severe have to play with. Medical appointment or important chore like showering = radical rest before, PEM after for many days (and then 'roll with it' on sleep reversal from the PEM)
isn't just also valid but it's the only possible way for those who are having to roll the dice on 'making it happen' for things way beyond their threshold, and we should eb respected for the discipline and how much committment it took to get there (not the classic 'but you managed to travel to the appointment the other day')
On that basis I think selling the idea we can all 'pace' is an issue, and the difference between those who can and those who don't isn't expertise. I think the term pacing is far too simplistic of the life we
have no choice but to lead to do our best to contain the harm.
I'd have a big worry if this section was too 'positive' rather than describing real life and including what we need others to understand and not be undermining. We need to get that the idea 'pacing is a management tool' is just another stick to beat those more ill or who are in PEM a lot with, and assume it is their fault for getting it.
From my experience too the most damaging thing was going over consistently 'a bit' (not necessarily into obvious PEM) then not getting the full break to fully rest off what had accumulated soon enough, with regard to long term deterioration that stuck. So I'd be as concerned to be describing that people need that 'catch up rest' as the 'ride the limits under PEM' idea - particularly given I see how people like PeteGladwell etc think and I genuinely believe he thinks that this 'pacing to behave right' and 'pretend function' is good and he's cracked that nut and yet that's what I spent decades being forced into and it's the worst thing, probably more damaging that an intense going over short-term where at least you
know quickly it wasn't good and you need to treat it fully with rest and not to do it again.