It's M.E. Linda
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
This idea of excessive stimulation also aligns with sleep disruption and the symptom of unrefreshing sleep. My observation is that disrupted sleep precedes next-day PEM.
Whenever I am ‘out late‘ (10pm?, even earlier?, just ‘been out’ anytime after 5pm),
especially if I have been with others (let’s face it, I won’t have been out on my own),
then that immediately is a disruption to my ability to go to sleep.
Even if I have gone to bed ‘later than usual’ - 9.45 instead of 9 - I will have problems:
unable to go to sleep; and/or
eventually drop off, but be awake for an hour or so later in the night, sometimes repeatedly; and/or
wake early and unable to go back to sleep.
And I also agree:
Life has a habit of ‘getting in the way’.
Best laid plans do not always work.
‘Light vacuuming’ is anything but light. More a major task to be carefully planned.
Sometimes I need to eat urgently but have no spoons to cook for myself (luckily I live with others, but then that brings an entirely different set of ‘excessive stimulation’).