I’m thinking there are 3 ME states linked to activity/exertion.
1. In the moment symptoms and associated fatiguability.
These symptoms can be mild to severe, and once a pwME knows how to interpret their own set of symptoms, they can try to use them to pace activities. (Other tools like Fitbits can also help).
2. A delayed Post Exertional Malaise (PEM) response starting 12-48 hours after having been active.
This is different to a normal healthy person’s tiredness or achy-ness, and can feel like flu with other additional symptoms.
PEM symptoms can also range from mild to severe.
Weirdly, a severe level of PEM can be triggered by very mild in the moment symptoms, and severe in the moment symptoms might produce only relatively mild PEM.
The pwME is the best placed person to judge their likely PEM response.
3. The Long-term Aftermath.
This is where the pwME is left after passing through states 1&2. (Note This may be compounded by re-entering states 1 & 2, before stabilising enough to judge the aftermath)
The long term aftermath can range from no change, to a severe lowering of the pwME’s long-term ability to function.
The dilemma for the pwME is trying to judge what level of in the moment & PEM symptoms they can experience, without producing a long term down step in their functioning.
Pacing to prevent long term decline is the absolute priority.
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When I was most ill, I needed to be attentive to very mild in the moment symptoms, in order to prevent PEM as much as possible, because each and every time I got PEM my functioning was ratchetted to a lower level.
Now that I am less ill, I can accept more symptoms both in the moment, and as PEM, because the aftermath is currently negligible. (Don’t worry, I continue to be very observant, and am constantly assessing my thresholds).
In short, it is the aftermath that pwME fear most.
This is particularly so for the individuals who can have a big detrimental aftermath from only very mild in-the-moment symptoms. These are also the people judged most harshly for being overly concerned about symptoms.
Ignoring in the moment symptoms is a risk.
The pwME is the person best placed to assess their own susceptibility.