Good point. When first diagnosed, I was working in Central London and a friend of a friend was a consultant. They mentioned I had been diagnosed. He asked if I travelled on the tube to work? As that was plenty enough “exercise” and not to feel the need to do any extra.
I think if I were reading about how to pace, I’d have needed someone to tell me it’s a coping mechanism not a cure. It’s nice to “even out” energy expenditure so that you’re not pushing yourself then recovering, but just being on an even keel, whilst it has its benefits, it still hurts, I’m...
Is that good enough reason to think you should “tell” people not to discuss the name? The whole point of my post being the unreasonableness of charity trustees/ex-trustees wishing to “police” what is discussed?
One theme I find interesting (and a turn-off) is people who want to police what others say/discuss etc.
You may find it unhelpful, useless and undermining to discuss the name of the illness. However this maybe the first time I have had the opportunity to do so. And in any case, if people wish...
It’s really hard for me to understand being “misdiagnosed” with agoraphobia if it was really ME/CFS. I was always an extrovert who loved being out, going to places. I still would be if I had the energy.
It’s annoying that it’s seen as an “ME patient community” behaviour. There are countless examples of people doing a “pile-on” or bombarding people, politicians, TV presenters etc with opinions. I’m sure there are strategies to deal with it, in this day and age. It’s a feature of social media...
Yes, when I worked in charities, even if there were very involved trustees (passion project type) they weren’t involved daily. And nor should they be. That’s not the role.
I know we would all like todo more than we can, but the important and difficult part is doing less. There’s no support or input for that, I suppose it’s too difficult. But increasing/pacing up etc, it gets so much attention and discussion yet it’s putting the cart before the horse. Zero...
There is more than one “voice” in that statement. Hence you can tell there’s some “spin” in it.
“Your charity” stood out. It has never felt less like “my” charity that it does this year, starting with Tyson and ending with the AGM.
I also disliked the end asking for people to come forward to...
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