On autism I read a "synaptic pruning" theory that suggested everyone builds then prunes synapses during brain development, but in autism the ones that get pruned off are different.
E.g. many more of the social learning neurons get pruned and many fewer of the neurons related to say, numbers etc.
I find this to be an intuitive model for the phenotype. There's not a lot of evidence for it yet though.
This article outlines the over-pruning hypothesis of autism. The hypothesis originates in a neurocomputational model of the regressive sub-type (Thomas, Knowland & Karmiloff-Smith, 2011a, 2011b). Here we develop a more general version of the over-pruning hypothesis to address heterogeneity in th …
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"The proposed atypical mechanism involves overly aggressive synaptic pruning in infancy and early childhood, an exaggeration of a normal phase of brain development. We show how the hypothesis generates novel predictions that differ from existing theories of ASD including that (1) the first few months of development in ASD will be indistinguishable from typical, and (2) the earliest atypicalities in ASD will be sensory and motor rather than social."
I don't think we know what controls synaptic pruning but I imagine a virus or autoantibody is not ruled out as a contributor to it going haywire.