We do need to home in on a disease mechanism.
I do like to the general ideas outlined by
@Jonathan Edwards, that ME/CFS may be caused by some dysfunctions in immune signaling, which then leads to a chronic aberrant immune response. That immune dysfunction ultimately might become the best target for treating ME/CFS.
An aberrant immune response could also neatly explain the viral data we observe in ME/CFS. In the case of enterovirus for example, we know that there is a chronic intracellular infection in ME/CFS patients' muscles and intestinal tissues. And we know that when viral load is reduced by antiviral or immunomodulatory treatment, ME/CFS symptoms substantially improve.
However, that intracellular infection alone may not explain ME/CFS, because you also find the same intracellular infections in a percentage of healthy people. But if you add an aberrant immune response into the equation, then that intracellular infection plus an aberrant response to it might give rise to the viral subset of ME/CFS.