Squeezy
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
@Hell..hath..no..fury... 


That picture! And what you said, "the truck driver is a prize a-hole"


I'm my case, it's a steam-roller driver. Totally squished me flat. Yeah, I've had a lot to handle, and maybe I underestimate the impact it's had on me because I've ALWAYS had a lot of stress to handle with my kids and husband.
I've got used to making lists, lots of lists, and getting the things I have to keep track of, and do, out of my head. The lists are there, and I know I'll get to them. Stress averted.
But my organisational skills have deserted me, and I can hardly MAKE a list, let alone see to it in my usual gradual, easy pace.
But the TASKS don't stop just because I have. The responsibilities. Big ones. No one to delegate to.
I'm being kind to myself, sleeping a lot and resting, because I simply can't do anything else.
People who have ME, who think seriously about having children... They are the best things in my life. I'd do anything for them. I sacrifice myself for them. I HAVE sacrificed my health for them. It's excruciatingly difficult, still, after 11 years ill, and this is at 16 and 20. Physically independent of me.
That picture! And what you said, "the truck driver is a prize a-hole"


I'm my case, it's a steam-roller driver. Totally squished me flat. Yeah, I've had a lot to handle, and maybe I underestimate the impact it's had on me because I've ALWAYS had a lot of stress to handle with my kids and husband.
I've got used to making lists, lots of lists, and getting the things I have to keep track of, and do, out of my head. The lists are there, and I know I'll get to them. Stress averted.
But my organisational skills have deserted me, and I can hardly MAKE a list, let alone see to it in my usual gradual, easy pace.
But the TASKS don't stop just because I have. The responsibilities. Big ones. No one to delegate to.
I'm being kind to myself, sleeping a lot and resting, because I simply can't do anything else.
People who have ME, who think seriously about having children... They are the best things in my life. I'd do anything for them. I sacrifice myself for them. I HAVE sacrificed my health for them. It's excruciatingly difficult, still, after 11 years ill, and this is at 16 and 20. Physically independent of me.
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