IT's my understanding that Coercive control may, or may not include gaslighting.
Coercive control - Womens Aid
I would agree that the aspect of CBT for ME that seeks to make the patient doubt their own experience, to believe that the sensations they are experiencing as sensations of illness, are normal healthy sensations, until the patients accepts that their perception of reality is wrong, their own perception is unreliable & to take on the reality of the therapist, is a form of gaslighting.
I certainly term it as such.
However I generally term that CBT/LP as '
unintentional gaslighting' because in many if not most instances, the therapist (who is operating far downstream of the ideology that created the therapy they are delivering) believes that they are correct - they have been taught that there is categorically nothing organically wrong & they genuinely believe they are helping.
So there is a key difference there - an abuser who is manipulating you to make you think you are insane, so they can (for example) steal your money, is quite different than a person who genuinely (however wrongly) believes you are delusional & is trying to assist you to see reality.
Unfortunately the effect on the victim/patient is just the same.
N.B. I'm not suggesting that therapists who do that are absolved from responsibility, just that intentional gaslighting has to be where the person doing it
knows full well that the victim is indeed perceiving reality accurately & is perfectly sane. That is the behaviour of the abuser in the movie Gaslight, from whence the term originated.
This is a hot button topic for me & i'm supposed to be resting up for something nxt wk, so i likely wont be back to respond (should anyone disagree/want to discuss further) for a wk or so - otherwise i will get all adrenalined up again & not be able to rest
Edited - to remove something personal in last paragraph