Identifying and renaming inaccurate, inappropriate or minimising words, phrases, etc. in ME/CFS

Discussion in 'Diagnostic Criteria and Naming Discussions' started by Utsikt, Apr 2, 2025 at 12:21 PM.

  1. Kitty

    Kitty Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    Oh God yes.

    Because "boom" means doing an essential activity, and "bust" means being made ill by it.

    What the expression conveys is more like getting staggering drunk then complaining you have a hangover.
     
  2. Kitty

    Kitty Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    Yes, push-crash is often expressed as a cycle. We need something that conveys having so little functional capacity you're never able to escape that cycle.
     
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    jnmaciuch Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    Thanks for starting this thread, I think it’s very useful to hash out.

    I’ve only been able to explain to friends and family by reframing what counts as ‘exertion.’

    I had to redefine it as “anything that requires more than resting-level use of any part of the body” and then point out how people with more energy will inevitably ignore 90% of the “exertion” that their body does.

    I struggled to find another word beyond exertion to explain this concept that wasn’t also trivializing. “Use deficit” or “taxing-ness” didn’t really cut it outside of my trusted friend group.
     
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    MrMagoo Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    Yes - we don’t have any agency, it’s not us doing something wrong, it’s our only option to survive!
     
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    MrMagoo Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    If I’m not lying down in silence, I’m exerting.
     
  6. Utsikt

    Utsikt Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    I’ve tried to say ‘everything can cause PEM’, but I often get questions about if X or Y can do it. Saying ‘yes, that’s what everything means’ wasn’t well received, although it probably had a bit of sass!

    Everything is a difficult concept to wrap your head around. Most people think it only contains the things they are aware of.
    And in the dark, in a comfortable but supportive bed, without smells, appropriate clothing, the right temperature, and so on.
     
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    Yann04 Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    Wrong software, but I want to repost/retweet this. Because yes. 100%.
    Yes.
     
  8. MrMagoo

    MrMagoo Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    It’s not “enough” of an explanation but it’s a start if you’re discussing with a generic non-ME type who thinks you can “just try” a bit of x y z. How much of their day can they achieve spending most of it lying down in silence? They take for granted being sat up or standing, let alone seeing, hearing, thinking etc.
    I feel like we need an unethical experiment device, which delivers a tiny electric shock each time something is added.

    Sit up - pulse shock starts on left leg
    Stand up - same on right leg
    Walk - same on left arm
    Noise - right arm
    Lifting items - tummy shock
    Radio on - ear shock


    When they are up to at least 4 simultaneous pulsing shocks, then they have to make a coffee, get dressed and do 30 mins of housework during which ear piercing screams will be played. The shocks might pulse less frequently after they lie down.
     
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  9. Jonathan Edwards

    Jonathan Edwards Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    I have always thought crash was more useful than PEM, but that is not to say they cover the same thing exactly.

    It may be useful for patients chatting to have terms of their own but we need to remember that terms like PEM are primarily there for doctors to use in picking out patterns that help them make a diagnosis. The patterns that help diagnosis do not necessarily reflect what is important to patients - they are not intended to and rarely do so in fact. PEM is a term of art and the words need not be accurate descriptors. Systemic lupus (wolf all over) is not an accurate description of anything.

    It is always more helpful for doctors if patients do not have a preformed terminology. It is much more helpful if they describe symptoms in their own unique words. The doctor can then judge that this fits the idea of PEM or not. And it doesn't even help if some other doctor has told the patient they have PEM because other doctors are often idiots!
     
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    Sasha Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    And I thought CFS was bad...
     
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  11. Utsikt

    Utsikt Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    I understand that the name doesn’t matter too much when it comes to the diagnostic process, but there’s an case for that the name of one or the most important features of an illness matters to the patients.

    And maybe even more importantly during interactions with the people around them and healthcare workers that are there to help after the diagnosis.
     
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  12. MrMagoo

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    I always go on about this, but I thing the fatigue/tired/pacing “do 50% less” energy envelope type of language makes it easy for a non-ME person to start from their own viewpoint. They imagine themselves as tired/doing pacing etc. They need to start from a point of pain and inability, not “what I do after a bad nights sleep because someone was having a noisy party”

    People don’t look at someone with deafness and think “well you could just try harder to listen, sometimes I get a blocked ear after swimming so I know how it is for you”
     
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    Jonathan Edwards Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    Maybe those interactions should use other words rather than words that have been designed by physicians for specific diagnostic purposes?

    As a physician I nearly always found it unhelpful when patients used these terms of art because it always raises the worry that they use them to mean some half-baked idea in the head of another physician. We don't know much about PEM - hardly anything at all. So I am not sure what is would convey to people around. It might be better to call it the gurdles or that flooping you get on a bad day, having explained to the people around what that is like.
     
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    DigitalDrifter Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    Deteriorative Sensory Overload.
     
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    Eleanor Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    I can say the first three or four syllables of 'Deteriorative' but my chances of getting anyone else to understand the whole word would be slim! What's a word meaning the same sort of thing but easier to pronounce?
     
  16. Utsikt

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    I think that’s a good idea!
    I wouldn’t assume the GP have heard about the terms at all. Not saying that you do for ME/CFS-related terms.

    Mine had not, and I spent two years exercising because of it. The first 18 months without mentioning PEM at all, only that it felt like living with a credit card from hell that gave me a delayed 10-20 symptoms for days after doing anything. Had to try and educate her afterwards, it was no well received, but that’s kind of understandable even though I don’t agree with it..
     
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    Declining?

    Sensory Overload Revenge?
     
  18. Peter Trewhitt

    Peter Trewhitt Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    Sorry I am struggling to cope with following whole threads at present so not commenting in sequence, but for me PEM, flare and crash describe different though potentially overlapping things.

    It is possible to have a flare in the underlying ME/CFS without an associated or triggering PEM episode. Similarly with a crash.
     
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    Mij Senior Member (Voting Rights)

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    The ME doctor I saw in the early 90's never used any term. Physicians should simply tell patients not to exercise.
     
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