However, it may also be a fallacy that bodily symptoms doesn't affect mental mechanisms and vice versa.
You clearly need some LP @andypants !My stomach twists just by reading that Landmark is at it again
However, it may also be a fallacy that bodily symptoms doesn't affect mental mechanisms and vice versa.
You clearly need some LP @andypants !My stomach twists just by reading that Landmark is at it again
I am so sorry to hear this and I've heard so many similar stories. It is heartbreaking.A newly diagnosed girlfriend (of a friend of the family) was excited to go and get treatment (paid for by her parents, who were thrilled at the prospect of getting their daughter better). It sounds like she had LP.
Her rapid decline (and need to now use a wheelchair) has shocked family members and friends - two of them ex nurses who have never seen anybody deteriorate so fast!
I really do think there should - and maybe is - a legal case to answer here. The poor parents and patient were clearly duped by callous fraudulent selling to very vulnerable people. These b*stards are no better than other con artists who destroy people's lives; in fact they are worse than most. They are disgusting. Surely to god there must be a law - an enforceable law with some teeth - that can bring these people to justice.I am so sorry to hear this and I've heard so many similar stories. It is heartbreaking.I am sure the parents intentions were the very best and I can't imagine how they must be feeling now.
If it was Lightning Process your friend had, she and her family have no rights now neither as customers or patient. It makes me so furious!
It is important to tell these stories because LP is not just something harmless to try with nothing to lose.
With the following I do not say that the parents forced their daughter to do LP - it sounds like she was happy to try it and hopeful about a cure.I am sure the parents intentions were the very best and I can't imagine how they must be feeling now.
But why was the daughter happy to try it? Why do parents, desperate to help their sick children, fall for this guff? Because they are, at an extremely vulnerable point in their lives, being conned by the very convincing marketing guff ... which I thought had been declared illegal?With the following I do not say that the parents forced their daughter to do LP - it sounds like she was happy to try it and hopeful about a cure.
Yes. I think it can be an important part of self care to distance oneself from recommendations and treatment advice from other people who are not health care professionals. But the pressure is very high and turning down these advice might lead to patient blaming; well you obviously don't want to get better.With the following I do not say that the parents forced their daughter to do LP - it sounds like she was happy to try it and hopeful about a cure.
I just say something which comes from my own experience and of which I was reminded when reading this:
Family members could learn from that that good intentions aren't helpful most of the time, especially not for people with ME. I still have to fight some family members' "good intentions" to "help" me, and it was always shocking to see how they don't care that the "treatment" could harm me; I certainly felt pressure to try this or that - and I simply didn't want to waste even more money on treatments about which I knew they were unhelpful, at best. (Of course, unlike in the case described above, those family members wouldn't pay for me.)
Apart from that...
...this...
....doesn't say anything but how unlogical Landmark's reasoning is. It is not known who these people are that are active on the forums (sufferers? familiy? carers?) and it is not known what "activity” means (liking a comment?) nor how many pwME are not even able to be active on the internet in any way or have active and passive phases alternately.
Edit:It could also mean that ME online forums have more to offer than other forums and simply are better
Edit 2: Just to be accurate: @inox checked how online activity was "measured":
https://www.s4me.info/threads/lp-coach-on-research-lightning-process-and-me-norway.5917/#post-107784
They counted posts and calculated the „number of weekly posted messages per 1,000 cases“. So whenever a smiley, a link, or a thank you was posted, regardless by whom, this seems to have been counted as a post.
"little evidence that ME patients do less than others"
seriously?
"they have ten times as high activity on the internet as others"
who are these others? presumably not people who are stuck at home with chronic illnesses.
eta: ah found it:
"Individuals suffering from CFS / ME appear to be much more active in their use of online discussion forums than sufferers of other somatic or mental health conditions. CFS / ME online forums had more than ten times the relative activity of any other disorder or condition-related forum."
so not people with say RA, or MS.
eta2: quote is from the 'published research' mentioned in article
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3365790/
Sums it up perfectly SL I’m here mostly when feeling worst like today otherwise i would be doing some of the chores that are stacking up waiting for me to have some energy to do them.Yes. We retreat to the internet as it is a "low energy" activity. If we had energy we wouldn't be stuck on the internet.
That comment was obviously made by someone who has chosen not to listen/learn about the lived experiences of people with ME.
I’m here mostly when feeling worst like today ...
The more the Landmark creature says, the more obvious it becomes that she has absolutely no understanding of life with a debilitating, chronic illness.
"Individuals suffering from CFS / ME appear to be much more active in their use of online discussion forums than sufferers of other somatic or mental health conditions. CFS / ME online forums had more than ten times the relative activity of any other disorder or condition-related forum."
https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC3365790/
4. The studies measure only subjective goals, but they must have objective goals
CFS / ME is a self-reported subjective condition, and it is natural to have subjective outcomes. It is difficult with objective goals, such as activity, because there is little evidence that ME patients do less than others. For example, they have ten times as high activity on the internet as others, according to an international published study.
The meta-analysis included seven studies and showed a daily physical activity level in patients with chronic fatigue syndrome of only 68% of the physical activity level observed in control subjects.