Also, let's keep BACME at the centre of what we produce, because they're all good chaps, have been doing this for years and we are looking forward.
I have a real issue with this
I don’t have the terms right now but don’t know why it isn’t talked about in the scandals terms of the abusive remove all rights deliberately rewrite their history with rumours of their personality take advantage of their fragility abuse of vulnerable people issue that it is. We can’t continue to have the same problem people as before and those who still think a deaf ear [if/as doing it right takes longer so is irritating] is ‘ok’ left to carry on with the same deaf ear approach.
What’s it all been for? The last years? Really the scandal of it all in a right world should have meant a clear out and come to Jesus as a never again and how can we put it right to at least not re trigger by doing insensitive things due to their past harms they did then not having an approach where they are careful again to this time care and make sure they aren’t callous about harm (and so that becomes one of their main measures).
That underlying bit never became the focus even if it would be implicit to every lay person. What is wrong with these professions. It’s like worrying about the spelling whilst writing something legally inaccurate or being poetic whilst churning out another recipe you haven’t checked actually is disgusting when someone at home follows it.
What do they think is the actual main thing of what they do as a job because the word ‘help’ should be banned from what they are allowed to say. And care. And end result not being to make people more disabled than necessary either thru ‘dunnoism’ or denialism if you don't have to actually check for it.
that it has never been countenanced as a discussion that they should apologise, be contrite, and be different in their approach to us makes it even more violating as so many of them have even silenced allowing people to not even talk about what it really was like to be on the receiving end and what consequences it would have but they don't even acknowledge it in ‘positive going forward terms’ in as far as the protections we need and then ‘needing to learn x’ or hear us.
The catastrophisation attacks really felt like I was being abused by the same people who did the harm in the first place, and were terrifying and underlines how inappropriate just keeping plopping the power with them rather than hiring them back on conditions has created as a situation that should never ever happen from a plain justice and safeguarding point of view. And I don't get it, because they don't have 'expertise' to offer, because that all turned out to be harmful tosh so the 'no learning ear' squirrel away and come up with a new nonsense is frankly a disturbing example of the same ignorance and bad habit. They've not heard the lessons, any of them. NO penny-drop
the silencing attitude and people need to be driven out of being anywhere near us - as the group having been made vulnerable and injured by them and therefore even more vulnerable to that coercion and it being a real sitting duck disgusting situation
even objectively I’m horrified the world still puts people back with that attitude even worse and more indignant as if they are the victims of ‘hassle’ created by us daring to ‘show our face as being harmed to show them up’ on top of they shouldn’t be allowed back in the first place and the falling straight back into bullying us into ‘can’t make us not do the same old' (and call it a new name or just a tweaked rebrand) is just gob smacking that they did as a boundary test and watched as no one backed us up.
no I don’t want paternalists who want to shut me and my body up writing who I am and dictating my rights and if I have a future. Who really aren't curious for new scientific information, nevermind getting to the bottom of any medical problems to make our disability less and finding out what they can in the mean time to support and work with us. They just aren't that. That phrase to them in their mind means something completely different (motivating us to do their same one-dimensional, can't get it through their heads you don't get to try it 2,000 times and then it will work in a way they think is individual but is just coercing the person in front of them).
and after all these years of course it’s my time when not only should I be allowed to say it but we, like the post office sub-postmasters, should be the only ones being given an ear - not the smooth spieling self deluded perpetrators, or next-men-down who were convinced of it, who had the mic for all those years - and in these situations the power operates the same. those who are dyed in the wool and have chosen a behavioural niche will never change and can’t even change their MO from attacking with veiled nonsense, which is what all the weaponise fake anti-mental health done by physios with no qualms, regs or any reason to be entitling themselves is being used. I find it all so appalling.
There may be those in the middle who might have it in them to learn but cant whilst this clear out process doesn’t happen because of the power differential and selling of delusions they have to learn off by heart to keep their place.
