I am not sure what ableism is meant to be here but one thing I am sure of is that patients do not have a right to expect doctors to treat 'diseases' they don't believe have any scientific basis with treatments that have not been properly tested.
It's about, when the patient says, I have pain here, I am experiencing this or that, that the doctor believes that they are an accurate witness of their symptoms, until there's very good evidence otherwise. If they think the patient might be getting things wrong and they aren't actually feeling pain as often as they report, they could give them an app to record things in real time. But, it's about not rushing to assume the patient is making things up because - well, what? Because the patient's idea of a good time is sitting in a doctor's office while the doctor makes it clear that they think the patient is a hypochondriac?
And, if you do believe that the patient is accurately reporting that they have crippling body aches, then isn't it reasonable to try some pain relief? And put them in touch with a good support group for people coping with pain. And find out if their family might need some sort of support. All the usual support that GPs can provide, even if they can't fix the illness.
If you don't like the term 'fibromyalgia', it shouldn't matter to the patient, I think. But, can't it just be a convenient term for body aches that we can't identify a cause for yet? If the patient wants to call their body aches 'fibromyalgia', does it really matter, if there isn't a more helpful term? What would you use - idiopathic body aches?
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I still have not found a doctor who will help me manage my fibromyalgia. I still have not found a therapist who can help me unravel the trauma caused by gaslighting and years of unmanaged pain.
It's the not being believed by the person you think might be able to help you that is devastating. Maybe there are patients who get upset that a doctor isn't going to prescribe the latest miracle cure that they've heard about or isn't going to call their illness what they want it to be called. But I think what most of us are asking for is to just be believed when we say 'This is what is happening to me. Can you please undertake some investigations to rule out what you can, and then help me work out how to deal with it?'
Most of us who have been lucky enough to have a career before becoming ill have felt that we were regarded as competent and that our opinion about all sorts of things was respected. It's awful to become a patient and suddenly be treated as someone who is not to be trusted, even when we are talking about what is happening to our own body.