hotblack
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
Yes I have sympathy with NHS staff in general but not here. It’s all well and good talking about the struggles NHS staff have, the NHS needs a lot of changes. But using any if thise problems in response to how people with ME/CFS are treated is a completely unacceptable distraction IMHO. People with other conditions are not treated like we are.
Failures happen with other conditions because of the wider problems but there isn’t the systemic disbelief and disregard that we face.
The response from workers in the NHS cannot be ‘oh but we need xy or z’ or ‘oh but its hard for us’ every time people with ME/CFS bring up the neglect and harms we face. It’s tone deaf and tbh shows how little regard they have for us and how they just don’t see the scandal in front of them and that they are a part of. We all face it with every interaction we have with all levels of NHS workers and we have all seen the refusal of those people to listen or accept. It’s perverse that we are expected to maintain sympathy for NHS workers when they almost universally show so little for us.
The eLearning modules were of course never going to change things at scale, we knew that. And I agree we can’t blame individual frontline staff for that. But a change of attitude is needed and educating medical professionals, giving them the information they need and correcting the all to common misguided ideas about us and our condition is vital. And those responsible in government and the NHS said the at these modules would change things and the Royal College of Physicians made promises they have not kept. It is vital we stick to calling them out on that, holding them accountable and not being distracted.
I have always supported the NHS and those who work in in it. Many of my family and friends have. And I want to continue to support the NHS. But honestly my experiences as someone wih severe me/cfs over a decade have eroded all trust and all faith and all sympathy. It will come back if people within the NHS start to change. But it’s on them to do that.
Failures happen with other conditions because of the wider problems but there isn’t the systemic disbelief and disregard that we face.
The response from workers in the NHS cannot be ‘oh but we need xy or z’ or ‘oh but its hard for us’ every time people with ME/CFS bring up the neglect and harms we face. It’s tone deaf and tbh shows how little regard they have for us and how they just don’t see the scandal in front of them and that they are a part of. We all face it with every interaction we have with all levels of NHS workers and we have all seen the refusal of those people to listen or accept. It’s perverse that we are expected to maintain sympathy for NHS workers when they almost universally show so little for us.
The eLearning modules were of course never going to change things at scale, we knew that. And I agree we can’t blame individual frontline staff for that. But a change of attitude is needed and educating medical professionals, giving them the information they need and correcting the all to common misguided ideas about us and our condition is vital. And those responsible in government and the NHS said the at these modules would change things and the Royal College of Physicians made promises they have not kept. It is vital we stick to calling them out on that, holding them accountable and not being distracted.
I have always supported the NHS and those who work in in it. Many of my family and friends have. And I want to continue to support the NHS. But honestly my experiences as someone wih severe me/cfs over a decade have eroded all trust and all faith and all sympathy. It will come back if people within the NHS start to change. But it’s on them to do that.
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