Yes, of course it matters to each individual. But while it would be brilliant to find a drug that makes the difference between one and three showers a week, or being propped up in bed several hours a day instead of just one, it isn't really what we're looking for. If you're still having to spend most of the time lying down it hasn't modified the underlying process.
I'd like to anticipate trialling drugs that do act on it. If they work at all they should block, break or interrupt whatever doom loop our immune systems are stuck in. It's difficult to envisage the long term result being partial gains; presumably the faulty process is either running or not, and if it's not the handbrake should be released. (I've experienced that twice, and it's extraordinary.)
To make the case for further trials or treatment being rolled out, the research team would need to be able to show that in a convincing way. Analysing what people actually did* seems much more satisfactory than asking how they felt (it's a proxy for that anyway), and it would be backed up by data from wearables.
ETA: * I should have said asking what people did in a manageable, accessible way that they'll be willing to do for a long time!
This is where we start to diverge a bit - I really 'got' the last comment on the idea of having a set of criteria that represented a 'stepping up'
I wonder if part of the difference might be the caveat I have in my mind that the really important bit is that anything is followed up long-term and those long-term measures become the primary outcome over eg something 6months or less (because it is the excitement of doing things too much pre- this timing with something that stimulates x ability but doesn't have behind it the 'delivery of y' that makes it not damaging that would be something which one
could either term a 'false flag' or actually might turn out to be something important short-term for people in desperate situations, depending on what it actually does).
If for example we are really looking at the 12month, 18month, 24month and focusing on objective activity, but including measures such as time horizontal and the tasks are indeed things like showering then I'm more OK with this
But a real downside of the history of those we get surrounded by staff-wise with ME is coercion (even including of the flavour hidden as 'motivating' and getting us to self-gaslight). I'm not sure because of this deliberate, and sometiems inadvertent by those deluded themselves that they are helping whether 'how we feel' actually compensates for that anyway in the short-medium because I know how thinking the pain=gain stuff can affect what goes on in our heads nevermind on a form etc. So agree with envisaging coming up with something that moves away from this being a necessary balancer.
PLus of course from my experience with things that genuinely made me feel better short term there was the deterioration which I'm convinced is part of what we might need to call a 'cycle of PEM' or something better descriptive to show that PEM isn't just some short term thing, but the accumulation or thinking we are managing to cheat it by riding the edges of it can mean we then take a massive dip in function say 6months in. So it is an illness of these nasty after-effects.
And we might have genuinely 'felt good'. And even done more. BUt perhaps the fact we couldn't also requisitely up the rest to go with that (because there are only 24hrs in a day and if 1hr activity needs 23hrs rest and we start feeling good doing 2hrs, is it 36hrs res or 24hrs rest we needed but the sums didn't add up over that period) caught up with us. To me I think that would probably mostly show in our function and activity rather than 'feel' still, because having a setback after having a 'holiday' comes with all sorts of complicated 'feelings' (does this term include how our body parts 'feel' without the mind getting involved is an interesting question having had different doses of steroids poses to me, because many things can change pain and feeling of strength? which can lull us into the behaviour that only causes the deterioration much later on eg many months).
But all of this absolutely hinges on this caveat of the longer-term, and that the pattern shows consistency (hence why it being measured up to 3yrs starts to make sense because if we get a virus at 2yrs that knocks us back then there is time to say we were good at 12, 18, 30, 36months)
I also think that we need to be aware that something could be 'part of the solution' and genuinely working on ME/CFS. But only part. And whilst we assume that no damage is done that will persist for all, it might. So we need to barter with oureslves a bit I guess at what the level of improvement is that says 'wouldn't want this taken away' vs 'could be tricked' and of course that level needs to be clearly labelled so that we don't end up with people again getting away with suggesting something is a cure and we should be fixed and 'acting normally' when it merely gives us back a massive chunk of quality of life eg being able to shower once a week vs once a month, sitting up for 3hrs vs 1hr is huge.