Sorry for the confusion. I did read through your post several times and was a bit unsure what went with what. It seemed that the quoted bit about non-Mendelian patterns came under familial rather than genetic and that was what I was differing on. Non-Mendelian inheritance can still give rise to a 'genetic condition' in the sense of exhausting the causality.
I was jumping back and forth a bit between concepts and I can see how that would be confusing.
Yes, that's correct and is what I was trying to say, that there are many non-Mendelian patterns that can come under genetic conditions.
(Just, my
non-Mendelian genetics link had both descriptions of some genetic conditions with specific heritable patterns, which were also mentioned under my
genetic conditions/inheritance patterns link, and some further types of genetics that wouldn't necessarily give rise to any specific inheritance pattern--some of the same ones you discussed under familial.)
In simple terms I think the difference between a genetic condition and a familial condition is that in the former if you have the right mix of genes, however many that might need to be, you get the condition and if not, you don't; in the latter the genetic risk is not absolute. So for identical twins with a familial condition one may have it and the other not. For a genetic condition the presumption is that they will match.
When I went to school, geneticists really didn't talk about genetic conditions in terms of absolute or non-absolute risk of getting a condition, because it's now known that there are
other factors that influence genetic expression besides whether the correct gene(s) is/are actually present or not. (You can have the gene(s) that cause it, but not have the condition, or you could have a version of it that's not clinically relevant. Or, of course, you could have the full clinically relevant version. Or something in between.)
So geneticists talk about whether inheritance patterns are met.
A polygenetic condition or one that had important stochastic (random) components wouldn't meet any specific inheritance pattern (even if it "runs in families" like RA or maybe ME). Thus, what I would call familial (even if I can't recall where I learned that, but as you're using it the same way, I must be using it ok!). Just I have an ever so slightly different explanation why something is familial compared with genetic.