Recently, I came across the idea of autism fatigue on the autism websites. It makes complete sense as the idea is that dealing with overwhelming input and struggling to deal with the neurotypical world takes so much effort it leads to exhaustion.
This is not a controversial idea. The same thing happens with many disabilities; my friend with cerebral palsy did would have to go to bed after doing things simply because of the effort it took to make her limbs work.
I suspect that being fatigued for any reason is being called CFS as we already know that it is being listed as a symptom rather than the accurate chronic fatigue. When CFS is mentioned we should always demand to know if PEM with inflammatory symptoms and delay has been looked for. If they just mean fatigue they must make that clear.
For myself, I was relieved as I have been worried that my autistic grandson had ME. I didn't think he had the inflammatory PEM we have but it is hard to find out due to his disabilities.
I'm autistic and I have ME (like, I definitely have ME, I'm diagnosed and I meet the ICC criteria).
My ME started off mild, and for a long time I thought it was just "autism fatigue" (also known as autistic burnout), as I'd heard people talking about that in the autistic community. Even when my ME became moderate, I still thought it was autism fatigue, until I found out that many of the things that I was experiencing (eg increased light sensitivity) were ME symptoms.
If I hadn't written it off as "autism fatigue" for so long, I would have known that pushing myself in terms of exertion was dangerous. I probably would not be severe now.
I believe that if there was better public knowledge about the varied symptoms of ME then I would have realised a lot sooner. The NHS page on CFS/ME is very limited in its description of the symptoms (I dont even have several of the Oxford symptoms like recurrent sore throat and swolllen lymph nodes). Meanwhile I was telling my GP that I was tired all the time, that I was struggling with blood sugar drops between meals, and that I was needing to wee very frequently. (Yes, she tested me for diabetes.) I didn't even mention my ever-increasing light sensitivity, because I assumed that was due to my autism. I was also noticing that at church I needed to sit down for the singing instead of standing up because I felt anxious standing up (of course I now know that this was orthostatic tachycardia).
I do believe that if I'd seen a copy of, for example, the ICC criteria for ME back then, I would have seriously considered ME as a possibility as it would have told me that all those things were symptoms. (Although the first point of the criteria might have turned me off since it insists on a 50% reduction in pre-illness functioning, which I think is unhelpfully exclusive, but that's off-topic...)
The GP never suggested ME/cfs either. After doing various blood tests which all came back normal she said I was probably tired due to my anxiety disorder. (Yes, I did genuinely have an anxiety disorder.) I found this plausible to start with - and for sure, my anxiety disorder was using up a large part of my available energy. But as the tiredness and continued to get worse I became more and more suspicious that there was something physical going on.