UpdateI'm chiming in with another anecdote, from the early hours of this morning actually. I'm currently in prolonged PEM, worsened by the addition of activity in the last 2 weeks surrounding my discrimination complaint.
My carer cooked me a chicken casserole and pureed squash yesterday of which I eat a small portion yesterday lunchtime around 1 p.m. I felt oK afterwards but could not eat anything else for the rest of the day as I felt really full. I was awoken during during the early hours this morning around 3 a.m. with an urgent need to be sick. I won't go into the gory details but suffice to say for the next hour I unloaded the entire content of that digested meal. It was accompanied by profuse sweating (I looked like I had just come out of the shower, no exaggeration) and collapsed on the bathroom floor, completely unable to move. There I remained until a little before 10 am this morning, when I was able to crawl to the living room. Today I'm light and sound sensitive. The house is silent and there is a table lamp on that's all. Cognitively, I'm slow processing information but made two posts today.
Now, imagine I'm in hospital instead and the drs are exposing me to light and sound while trying to force food down me. Then imagine, that I've been sectioned on the grounds of malnutrition. When I complain through slurred speech (yes that's present today as well), and utter physical exhaustion that I cannot tolerate it; am I mentally incompetent in terms of making a decision?
This is a fluctuating illness akin to several others. You can only 'manage' a fluctuating illness by responding to its fluctuating nature. The fluctuation itself is not as a result of poor management.
I had exactly the same meal yesterday at the same time but about a quarter less of the previous portion. No sickness but slight nausea.
Today better tolerance to light and sound though still sensitive, still mostly bedbound.
Obviously this is my experience as an OAP.
When considering all these mostly young womens' experiences of hospital, one question which must also be addressed, in my opinion, is mysigony and the ME/CFS label itself being so attached to aberrant thoughts and behaviour.
The chicken casserole was from the Dr Claire Bailey fast 800 Recipe book, wife of Dr Michael Mosely, I responded to fluctuations. I did not force exposure to light and sound.