, beyond what a GP would do for individual symptoms such as pain and insomnia?
this is a really good example of what I feel is a big worry. The treat the symptoms 'wishful thinking' of the entire professions that are involved, and indeed lots of people on the outside of it who intrude into our lives or surround us. That they can just use what works for them with all of these symptoms that have been given the same name. And when those don't respond as expected then whether they blame us or tell us 'well that's it so there is nothing else' then it is the same result. Not behaving right. Whether they admit to themselves they realise that is a behavioural attitude they've been imbued with or not.
There has been a lurch towards seeing, not just treating, ME/CFS as 'just symptoms' and worse treating those symptoms as if the illness which is counter-intuitive isn't there. Hence how first GET and CBT they won't get that these are harmful, and even most patients won't understand regarding sleep hygiene.
And yet something that might seem obscure, like B12 injections help me, and certainly don't cure me but means I can have something as I can bear screens, I dread to think what will happen because it isn't on the list and 'to be dealt with'.
I also spent so many years with the label having been given to me I'm pretty sure
in order to not look into other pathology that I had. And so that narrative goes because then many years on anything you have is blamed on how you 'behave' after you got ill rather than the logic of before->consequence.
I also can't see at the moment how even in the best case scenario where magically some areas do understand PEM and the importance of it, we will move to cures by understanding from seeing enough different people over time what causes it or any mechanisms, so that we can hope for something that changes the underlying illness. So at best our hope is one day some of us might be able to/allowed somewhat live within the tiny envelope we have.
I also think that the grim thing about the misinformation and strategy to be divisive so even within the community we are encouraged to not say we are like those 'others' is that when someone has symptoms that are different to what they have then there is the assumption
that is 'something else'.
Those who get some kind of sleep reversal I will say have probably got one of the most awful situations, with regard noone getting how it gets worse the more you don't go with it and therefore make the underlying condition (and cause) worse by making yourself more exhausted. And yet we all feel generally feel the need to hide it because it is truly so rejected or assumed to be all sorts of horrendous things that all lead back to someone 'intending to help' talking behind your back about undermining the little things you do to survive (like naps or hiding literally so that you can sleep before something, or have any time to do anything when you are awake ie genuinely awake).
Those in that situation feel the brunt of how the world would rather you can't function
at all than be someone 'at the wrong times'.