I understand your point but perhaps one deeply penetrating question to draw attention to the members who might not realise the failings to start questioning?If all goes to plan I'll be there tomorrow, I'm intending on more of an observer role rather than taking them to task, as I'm not sure that would actually achieve anything.
for the past decade I, with no effect, focused mainly on MEA. I thought AFME were just hopeless whereas mea atleast “got it” more. What I’ve gone to think though is that MEA are mainly a group based around a solitary medical advisor. Ok they have trustees and provide information mainly gif the newly ill and a helpline and magazine which is to some degree impressive with their resources but otherwise Dr Charles Shepherd is acting as a medical advisor would. They’re not really campaigning nor are they really fundraising and whilst Dr Charles Shepherd does “some good” my main criticism of them , beyond the shameful sidelining of the severe. Is their lack of seeming aspiration to fulfill the normal role of medical charity for a significant illness (my reading). Bizarrely they’re hampered (imo) by having no dynamic, aspirational, team leading, volunteer inspiring ceo, Action for ME however now have 2 in that role.
Coming onto AFME , whilst I very carefully have made sure I wouldn’t get blocked as many critical patients are on their Facebook and post regularly on their page, otherwise I haven’t really bothered until recently with them. I saw them as just trapsing on in the same disastrous fashion they have since the 90s, initially going all big on alternative medicine, then u turning and supporting the establishment DIY behaviour approach, now finally getting involved more in research but essentially setting up some unsatisfactory CMRC conferences and letting the ME expert group, then CMRC fail to bring us significant developments over a number of years.
However since discussions on here about the nitty gritty regarding income, staff and potential it’s just struck me that surely it’s arguable Action for ME are underperforming given their staff numbers and amount of patients money they spend on salaries?. This is in the context of the UK charity situation with TYMES, IIME, 25%, MEA, MERUK and #MEAction all relying on far less resources. They are the largest UK ME charity and they have the most members and influence. So shouldn't we be asking them to step up? I ask this from the position of our community really needing the same type of national charity other majors illness have (ofcourse respecting the obstacles to fundraising we all know ) my concern is that the community income is being channeled into a charity like AFME where it’s not being used to great effect.
One question I would like AFME to consider is why, given the relative commonness of CFS and ME supposedly poorly supported by the nhs, they don’t have more members. And another is, are they happy, as we approach another new decade , with the progress within UK of this last one?