Yes,
@Barry, and
@JaimeS. It does get very tricky. And I do struggle when I have mixed feelings about certain individuals, or situations.
In general I try to take a no fault approach to these things. In other words, some may say I'm a raving Lefty.
I was voicing my frustration with situations more familiar to me, that have lasted decades, with little to no improvement. I am also negatively effected by these individuals' opinions, which has coloured my thinking, as in "It must be nice" to sit around all day, you "undeserving pwME". As in they dismiss my situation as inconsequential, but view their own as very important - a natural human tendency.
I am a proactive person, and have difficulty understanding people who don't want to help themselves, but look to others to fix it.
I just shake my head when I read BPSers say things like pwME are lazy.
This is probably an inadequate explanation for my expression of my doubts and struggles with some of the depressed people I know, but I can't seem to get any closer right now.