The sessions, monthly for 6 months comprised a one to one "goal setting" session of A with a physio, followed by a family chat session for a second hr, with a clinical psychologist.
I think A was relatively happy with the physio sessions. They were talk, not exercise, based.
I was allowed in for the last 5 minutes, to discuss what A and physio had agreed between them.
To me, the suggestions ranged from pointless to completely unachievable.
For example, initially it was go out for maybe 20 mins each day. BUT A did not want to be out and about near our home or nearest towns in case she was "questioned" about how she was by people she knew. So, we would need to drive somewhere to do this and they seemed unclear as to whether the drive time should be included or not...
I think we came out of one session with a recommendation to drive half-way to Dorking and then back, which seemed pretty pointless!
A was so desperately keen to be better that she would agree to anything the "professionals" recommended.
A was asked to take her timetable in sometime in October, so they could devise a daily plan for her.
This time the physio came up with a plan of 2-3 hrs daily, from 11 or 12 for one or two lessons and/or lunchbreak.
Again A agreed because she would have loved to do that.
BUT it was completely impractical:
- If A came down by 11am, she dozed off again downstairs, so being at school by anything before 12 was not going to happen.
- It would be pointless to attend a few AS level Maths sessions a week as it is not the type of subjectyou can dip in and out of.
- Hardly any geography lessons were included. This was a subject that she had begun the previous year and we had notes for. It also included a couple of students she knew well (having gone down a year). She also knew all the geog teachers well.
- Most of the lessons seemed to be for Govt and Politics. She had chosen this instead of Art as the Art teacher had been such a COW (polite version), the previous year when she had been unable to attend regularly. She had also decided not to continue with Biology as the practicals were assessed over the year, so she would need to be in at certain times.
- She had only managed a couple of lessons in the previous month so this was NOT an achievable target.