@Lilpink It seems you've become upset or indignant (?) at being called a stalker. That's a shame and unnecessary because I did not accuse you of being a stalker.
These are all my relevant posts:
Re: EC's grandfather and Oxford
I then read your reasoning behind this line of discussion and said:
and later, in response to
@Esther12:
That last quote is the only point in this thread where I can think that you concluded you were being accused of stalking.
My only point was that it is about perception. Anyone can read anything on a public forum. I think it's possible that others may read this line of discussion and see it as akin to stalking. They may even wish to use for their own agenda, a small possibility. So it
may risk looking stalkerish. To me? No. Do I think you are stalking? No.
So I didn't accuse you of stalking.
It is still not a detail that I personally think necessary to bother with; I think there are better aspects to concentrate on, though as I said before I see why you do. We just disagree on this point.