Andy
Retired committee member
Are such posts unhelpful? Broadly, yes.
Should we be aware of the issue? Of course.
Should something be done about it? I’ll expand on this below but directly, no, indirectly, yes.
By directly, I’m referring to suggestions such as contacting the person responsible for an “angry” or “inappropriate” message and “educating” them in what is deemed to be the “right” way to approach things. Angry people tend to be angry for a reason, and if that reason is not addressed then they are highly unlikely to change how they express themselves, and someone approaching them telling them to be less angry is likely to have the opposite effect. So in my opinion, this would be a pointless waste of energy and time for both sides.
I also challenge the scale of the issue. The impression tends to be given that these messages are harmful to progress and setting pwME back - I just don’t believe that. What I have seen on social media is that, as we make progress, the number of “angry” messages has decreased. There will be certain topics and individuals who might inspire an increase in messages deemed inappropriate but, in the grand scheme of things, the impact of those messages will be negligible.
By indirectly, I’m referring to dealing with the reasons why people are angry, and for most it will be the issues that we are trying to change already - the lack of research, appropriate care and support. So my argument is that the energy and time that might have gone into complaining about, and possibly contacting individuals and attempting to educate them, would be better invested by far into these more global issues.
An additional issue I have with this topic. It comes across, to me at least, as lacking a huge amount of empathy for those who express themselves in the “wrong” way. Those who express themselves in an angry way are likely, I believe, to be in very challenging situations - alone, unemployed, attempting to scrape by on benefits or savings, housebound at best. Social media might be their only opportunity to vent and to demand that they should change how they should use it is, seeking to take away, in part, the small amount of control they have in how they express themselves. It also comes across as someone who has some element of privilege speaking down to someone more disadvantaged, telling them how to speak and act because they believe that that is how they achieved their measure of privilege.
In short, I don’t believe it is a big enough problem to warrant being so judgemental about how a small number of disadvantaged people might express themselves - use the energy and time spent on better things.
Should we be aware of the issue? Of course.
Should something be done about it? I’ll expand on this below but directly, no, indirectly, yes.
By directly, I’m referring to suggestions such as contacting the person responsible for an “angry” or “inappropriate” message and “educating” them in what is deemed to be the “right” way to approach things. Angry people tend to be angry for a reason, and if that reason is not addressed then they are highly unlikely to change how they express themselves, and someone approaching them telling them to be less angry is likely to have the opposite effect. So in my opinion, this would be a pointless waste of energy and time for both sides.
I also challenge the scale of the issue. The impression tends to be given that these messages are harmful to progress and setting pwME back - I just don’t believe that. What I have seen on social media is that, as we make progress, the number of “angry” messages has decreased. There will be certain topics and individuals who might inspire an increase in messages deemed inappropriate but, in the grand scheme of things, the impact of those messages will be negligible.
By indirectly, I’m referring to dealing with the reasons why people are angry, and for most it will be the issues that we are trying to change already - the lack of research, appropriate care and support. So my argument is that the energy and time that might have gone into complaining about, and possibly contacting individuals and attempting to educate them, would be better invested by far into these more global issues.
An additional issue I have with this topic. It comes across, to me at least, as lacking a huge amount of empathy for those who express themselves in the “wrong” way. Those who express themselves in an angry way are likely, I believe, to be in very challenging situations - alone, unemployed, attempting to scrape by on benefits or savings, housebound at best. Social media might be their only opportunity to vent and to demand that they should change how they should use it is, seeking to take away, in part, the small amount of control they have in how they express themselves. It also comes across as someone who has some element of privilege speaking down to someone more disadvantaged, telling them how to speak and act because they believe that that is how they achieved their measure of privilege.
In short, I don’t believe it is a big enough problem to warrant being so judgemental about how a small number of disadvantaged people might express themselves - use the energy and time spent on better things.