Sorry this is a bit jarring now as the thread has moved on but it felt important for me to respond.
Hm, the occasional layman person has these beliefs because they are frightened and obsessed and who probably report improvement after CBT/LP? This actually feels the opposite, that these people are viewed as someone whose experiences are not real and their symptoms are due to their misguided beliefs. That's what it sounds like, psychologizing, BPS and really rubs me the wrong way.
Sorry it’s taken me so long to reply
@Wyva
Reading back through my recent posts on this thread i realise they can easily come off as a bit superior/patronising & implying that anyone who attributes symptoms to something unconventional is foolish, & perhaps that i think their experiences are not to be taken seriously.
I dont think that. And i'm sincerely sorry to anyone who felt judged, dismissed or otherwise hurt/offended by my comments.
I agree that especially because it is poorly understood illness, we need to keep an open mind. And seeing an unexpected pattern isnt being obsessed or unhealthy in itself. Sometimes those patterns/attributions will be scientifically impossible, sometimes not.
My posts came from a place of anger with Garner & his ilk because I'm totally fed up with them assuming that
their unhealthy/unhelpful reactions to things
they experienced, are 'the problem' in ME, when many of us dont even have those reactions, and that coloured my posting.
What i meant is better described by these other more eloquent people...
"I got completely frightened that I’d be ill the next day. If you expect things to happen then they do."
i know Garner was talking about Covid in this tweet but .... really?
Most pwME just don't think like this.
Even with CFS clinics and GET the first thing they say they usually have to do is to get people to stop doing so much. It's just the wheels come off when they start to build up activity again.
Apparently he was trying to 'see patterns' in his symptoms and analyse what factors had preceded them. But he draw an extreme conclusion that even the average layperson would not have. Maybe this would be understandable for individuals with no understanding of physiology, but this guy is a medical doctor! He should be aware of how bodies respond to sugary foods, especially as people age and 'pre-diabetes' symptoms are more likely once you reach middle age. I'd be really concerned if my GP showed this level of medical incompetence.
He has extrapolated from his own experience that it is what we all feel all the time without realising that what he did was not how people with ME self manage.
I am so sick of this portrayal of PwME as being frightened (of both activity itself & the consequences of it), obsessed, and making attributions which have no basis in science or fact. I and many others, am not frightened of activity or it's results, am not obsessive & have learned not to make attributions without very strong reasons (ie a lot more than his '1 afternoon eating too much cake' + next day crash = sugar allergy).
Pls note- I dont believe that anyone who
does get obsessed, or who
does feel frightened of activity, or who does make such attributions should not be listened to, but i'm sick of them assuming that just because that's what
they did, it must mean that is the general problem in PwME.
But clearly that is not the underlying cause of symptoms/illness, since many of us do not fit that profile at all.
I didnt think
anyone fit that profile, as i never met anyone who felt properly frightened of minor increases in activity (obviously someone who is very severely affected would quite rationally be scared of something that would leave them in agony for months, but thats not the kind of fear Garner alluded to in his interview). Nor have i met anyone who went beyond observation & keeping an eye out for patterns, & into the kind of obsessiveness he describes. I was merely acknowledging my error when it was pointed out that perhaps some PwME did. I wasn’t intending to make "sweeping generalisation" about anyone.
What i said about improving with LP seems to have been misinterpreted as meaning that i think some PwME are only ill because they're obsessed or something, & will therefore likely improve with LP.....but
I would never think that!! So apologies to anyone who read it like that, that was *not* my intent.
My saying it would be 'interesting' to find out if people who reported benefit from LP/CBT were those who felt scared/obsessed with symptom monitoring etc, was just simple curiosity - I wondered if perhaps CBT/LP could help someone to put the huge amount of physical & emotional energy that fear & obsessive behaviour takes out of you, to better use.... & therefore that could seem like an improvement?
I'm just always curious as to why some people report benefit. I detest LP, but am just trying to keep an open mind & not dismiss those who report improvement either.
Sorry, but I'm one of those "weather change" types and it makes my life so miserable...
I'm sorry to hear this, it must be just awful to live with.