I get that impression very strongly. And the irony is that these labels are tickets to being disbelieved by the entire medical profession, some of whom will play the game of pretending they explain something and hand out pills and some of whom will say they don't want to be involved.
Isn't that true for ME/CFS as well? Except we don't get pills we get told to exercise. I don't think any of the few doctors I've come across believed ME/CFS was real, apart from possibly one about 20 years ago who signed me off for ill health retirement but spoiled the impression of being believed by recommending a quack therapy.
I wonder to what extent the diagnosis each of us gets depends on the particular medical specialism we see. So a cardiologist will diagnose POTS, a GI specialist IBS, an allergy specialist atopy or MCAS, a rhematologist hEDS and/or FM, and so on. If we see several specialists about different aspects of ME/CFS, it's hardly surprising we end up with a muddle of labels, and all those specialists may reject ME/CFS as not a real diagnosis.
The question this thread is trying to address is whether there is any role for advocates in helpiing pwME to get the best care possible and avoid being rejected as psychosomatic by doctors into whose care we are landed, in some cases in dire life or death need for feeding and other support.
JE has told us that arriving at hospital with a list of conditions which some doctors don't believe are real conditions leaves the patient vulnerable to being shoved off to psychiatrists. That is a truly disastrous situation. The blame for this lies squarely with the doctors refusing to see the patients' real needs.
What I'm struggling to understand is why, if I tell a hospital doctor I have a list of syndromes, the doctor does not have the integrity and clinical good sense to look beyond that and see the need in front of them, ask pertinent questions about symptoms and eating difficulties, and provide appropriate feeding support.