Ariel
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
It was GET and stealth LP, which he was vague about and called something else, dangling it in the future as something promising. He said he had a colleague who was doing this, and it felt like a scam, whatever it was. Felt like he brought in clients for someone else sometimes.
He would berate you for basically anything you were doing - too little, too much - whatever it is. Not using their expensive pointless in-patient service. Being sick. Being well enough to do activities. (He is the only doctor who ever got upset that I did too much - it didn't make me ill at the time. Why not? He thought I should not go on holiday, despite being well enough. He was very controlling.) He told me I did not want to get well. He shouted. He made inappropriate comments. He made strange comments about whether I had a relationship. He was sexist. They were very strong on the psychological component story and were fuzzy and misleading about the illness. Your symptoms are "real" but here's a handout about "stress" and "anxiety". It was all done in a stealth way.
He told me he didn't tell me I'd been at risk for relapse and to be careful when I was younger and mild ME/CFS following EBV because I was too young at the time to be told that. I had been 17. He had recommended in-patient care and gave me GET handouts. I thought I got better (I didn't do the GET or recognize it, it was just handouts and we were really going there for diagnosis) but I went back years later in my mid 20s after getting very ill, and tried again with him before stopping. I was basically at that time told I wasn't one of "those" patients who wouldn't recover. I was generally told anecdotes about "those people". You could not get any clear answers and the whole atmosphere was rude, condescending, and about complying with what they wanted you to do, which seemed fairly arbitrary. It was expensive and nothing was explained in an honest way. My parents, who are lawyers, came to consider them dangerous.
I was horrified to learn that I had been in contact with someone who had been involved in the Sophia Mirza case, and to read the correspondence. It frankly sounded like him. My experiences with this place were not that bad because I got away and had sensible family and frankly the experiences were so bad that it made you not want to go back; so many red flags. I feel quite traumatised seeing this come up. I am sorry to others who have had bad experiences.
He would berate you for basically anything you were doing - too little, too much - whatever it is. Not using their expensive pointless in-patient service. Being sick. Being well enough to do activities. (He is the only doctor who ever got upset that I did too much - it didn't make me ill at the time. Why not? He thought I should not go on holiday, despite being well enough. He was very controlling.) He told me I did not want to get well. He shouted. He made inappropriate comments. He made strange comments about whether I had a relationship. He was sexist. They were very strong on the psychological component story and were fuzzy and misleading about the illness. Your symptoms are "real" but here's a handout about "stress" and "anxiety". It was all done in a stealth way.
He told me he didn't tell me I'd been at risk for relapse and to be careful when I was younger and mild ME/CFS following EBV because I was too young at the time to be told that. I had been 17. He had recommended in-patient care and gave me GET handouts. I thought I got better (I didn't do the GET or recognize it, it was just handouts and we were really going there for diagnosis) but I went back years later in my mid 20s after getting very ill, and tried again with him before stopping. I was basically at that time told I wasn't one of "those" patients who wouldn't recover. I was generally told anecdotes about "those people". You could not get any clear answers and the whole atmosphere was rude, condescending, and about complying with what they wanted you to do, which seemed fairly arbitrary. It was expensive and nothing was explained in an honest way. My parents, who are lawyers, came to consider them dangerous.
I was horrified to learn that I had been in contact with someone who had been involved in the Sophia Mirza case, and to read the correspondence. It frankly sounded like him. My experiences with this place were not that bad because I got away and had sensible family and frankly the experiences were so bad that it made you not want to go back; so many red flags. I feel quite traumatised seeing this come up. I am sorry to others who have had bad experiences.