This is so true @Snowdrop.I particularly appreciate the section acknowledging that finding yourself in the presence of someone who listens and who presents as compassionate is not the same as someone who is without an agenda or bias as to why you are ill or what to do about it.
The BPS position has developed skill over time in relaying their views. It is a new kind of trap and a more insidious one. If people are left believing they are being truly helped 'this time' what will be the outcome when they realise they are not being helped in a way that heals (or even alleviates) but merely pacifies or worse. And yes sometimes the individual therapist has fooled themselves as well.
In many of the recovery stories that I see this is a theme. The person felt cared for and listened to.
While this attitude is an essential ingredient in good care it is not sufficient and only the beginning. At the heart of the problem is a disregard for the patient. A disbelief in their ability to be capable of knowing their own experience (even actively undermining that knowledge).
And sadly, sometimes (as vulnerable sick people) we co-operate with their superior knowledge even as the evidence mounts that it conflicts with the reality of what is happening to us.
But we have felt cared for.
And when this is done to children this represents a horrible breach of trust that IMO rises to the level of criminal.
Thanks @NelliePledge. I had meant to alert them too. I think the upcoming parts on deconditioning and GET will be especially relevant to them.Tagging @PhysiosforME just in case you’ve not seen @Naomi10 s excellent blog
I cannot get my head round how any ME charity these days can still be peddling this cr*p. Do they really have no scruples? No common sense? No basic humanity? Suspect the answer to all of these is: BPS. There is obviously a lot of BPS influence from within BACME, but I'm sure there will be a lot from without as well - strings being pulled.The BACME guidelines assume that deconditioning is a major factor in the continuation of symptoms in severe ME. This is not explicitly stated, but the implication is woven throughout in continual references to the need for rehabilitation, goal setting and gradually increasing activity.
They aren’t a charity are they? I thought they’re a “professional” group for people who work in CFS services.Excellent article @Naomi10, really good.
I cannot get my head round how any ME charity these days can still be peddling this cr*p. Do they really have no scruples? No common sense? No basic humanity? Suspect the answer to all of these is: BPS. There is obviously a lot of BPS influence from within BACME, but I'm sure there will be a lot from without as well - strings being pulled.
Oh god it's even worse ...They aren’t a charity are they? I thought they’re a “professional” group for people who work in CFS services.
Thanks @Barry. As @NelliePledge says, they’re not a charity. In their own words they are “a multidisciplinary organisation for UK professionals who are involved in the evidence-based management of patients.”Excellent article @Naomi10, really good.
I cannot get my head round how any ME charity these days can still be peddling this cr*p. Do they really have no scruples? No common sense? No basic humanity? Suspect the answer to all of these is: BPS. There is obviously a lot of BPS influence from within BACME, but I'm sure there will be a lot from without as well - strings being pulled.
Yes, thanks. Just been onto the website to bring myself up to date.Thanks @Barry. As @NelliePledge says, they’re not a charity. In their own words they are “a multidisciplinary organisation for UK professionals who are involved in the evidence-based management of patients.”