I don’t think anyone is arguing for those things, not that I’ve seen in this thread. We all want to reduce misinformation.
Rvalle said that we can’t focus on real science while they are out there accusing us of all kinds of things (my addition: and using pseudoscientific BS methods).
Surely the best defence against that is to focus on the science when we answer them instead of myths.
If we say «you are wrong because of [myths]», we might still be right about that they are wrong, but when our argument for why is also wrong most onlookers aren’t going to change their mind in our favour. I believe
more people will chance their mind if we use sound arguments, even though most will still not because of human nature. More people changing their mind is still better than fewer people, and can make a meaningful impact.
The point being made is the same one that has been made dozens of times here and it is pushing back against an obsession or blind spot that seems to exist. Even if we were able to completely eradicate those ‘biobabble’ views (which no disease has managed to, they all have some doctors and patients with some odd ideas) we would still be treated poorly. The root cause of this problem lies elsewhere.
That strikes me as unfounded pessimism and defeatism. It’s not a quick fix, and it won’t stop the abusers themselves, but it might affect the people that do not abuse us and have the power to help us against the abusers.
This is why I don’t think it’s about what we say to doctors, it’s their preconceptions and misunderstanding that are the problem. I agree it’s dangerous and exhausting. But sadly what we say does not matter, we can’t fix this by using the right magic words.
@rvallee also:
People are too fixated on the fact that the abusers won’t ever change, and forget that there are many neutral potential allies out there, and that how the advocacy is done has a real impact on the likelihood of them working for us instead of ignoring us.
It shouldn’t be that way, it’s deeply unjust, but it is.
I think I’m just repeating myself now, so I’ll stop here.