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@poetinsf wrote:
"You could get stress out by misbehaving people and end up with PEM (I don't know the "violent anger issues" that
@Utsikt was referring, I'm making this up). By simply observing it as a phenomenon rather than reacting, you can prevent PEM."
You seem stuck on the erroneous idea that stress is the prime cause of PEM, and preventing PEM by not getting stressed.
The reason people with ME find driving demanding is not stress. It's the physical activity/energy requirements, complex co- ordination, and the extreme cognitive demands of continuous processing of vast amounts of continuous information on the road. Visual and auditory information, and the complexity of constant adjustment to changing conditions required to drive at all, let alone safely.
Many people with ME can no longer drive at all for those reasons, let alone drive safely.
Being faced with a road rage incident simply adds on another layer of information to process while operating possibly at the limits of what the person with ME can cognitively process.
Perhaps you think that ME is a stress condition.
PS - I practiced meditation of all kinds, including mindfulness, plus yoga, yoga nidra etc, since 1972.
None of that prevented me from becoming sick with ME following a virus infection in 1995. Meditation/mindfulness didn't cure me either.
Many people with ME are veterans of meditation/mindfulness (since way way before Kabat-Zinn and the rest took it up).
Mindfulness didn't prevent them from becoming sick with ME, and didn't cure them either.
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