This isn't right.
You are talking about 'a pain signal.' In fact, it is looking like it would be better to say 'a signal indicating tissue damage.' It is the brain that then decides whether or not to generate pain. Most of the time, it gets it right. You stand on a nail, it hurts because you need to know to get the nail out and clean the wound. But the brain can choose not to generate pain if needs be, for example if you are in an avalanche with a broken ankle and it is a priority to get to safety, the pain may kick in after you're out of harm's way. Talk to climbers and mountain bikers and they will confirm this happens sometimes. You can have a serious injury and no pain until hours later under some circumstances.
We think that the brain makes mistakes in the other direction. The idea is that if you are neurodivergent/have a sensitive nervous system/have experienced trauma, you might have a brain that generates more pain either more often or of more intensity. It's not conscious, it's not always even about your own conscious expectations although they likely have an influence. The idea is if you have experienced, eg, domestic abuse where you were in danger a lot as a child, pain will be activated in you far more readily than in others. We see support for that here:
https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/20008066.2023.2284025 You have a more sensitive alarm system through no fault of your own, it's just how the brain reacts to being in constant threat.
There have been people extending this work to symptoms like you see in M.E. Why in nature might a brain switch on symptoms when there is nothing physically wrong? It's protective, but it's a mistake that is being made. It's not things working properly. When we're ill, we retreat away from others and stay safe so the brain is switching that on sometimes when it might not need to. If we have experienced trauma or are sensitive/intelligent, the nervous system is likely oversensitive about generating this sickness response the same as with pain. This is why the brain retraining crowd talk about symptoms being real, they are trying to validate the fact the brain really is creating the symptoms, they aren't just patients thinking they're ill when they're not (which some psychiatrists have been accused of saying).
Why would PEM be delayed - no idea, but we know in autism and emotion processing that emotions can be felt a couple of days after they typically would in others and many with M.E seem to be neurodivergent, even if that's been missed. I think there's a link there that needs researching.
Some actual research on PP=
https://papers.ssrn.com/sol3/papers.cfm?abstract_id=7233479
The old unhelpful beliefs theory was that people with ME/CFS feel bad with activity because they are expecting to. But try that in predictve theory: Expecting to feel bad. No bad signals coming in: RELIEF, BETTER THAN EVER
No. This is wrong. What it might be is:
Someone with M.E tries activity (and wants to enjoy it), they have experienced crashes in the past (this is a danger signal), the brain is oversensitive about protecting you, possibly based on previous harm, so the symptoms kick in and you come away with the unconscious learning that exercise make you ill. It is a loop once you're in it and can be hard to stop. You know last time you crashed and the crash was debilitating, you see others crash in your community, you believe there is some physical harm in you that hasn't yet been spotted---- this is all knowledge the brain pieces together to feel significantly under threat and so continues to generate symptoms when you try to exercise. You can really want to exercise but your brain will override things. It's a primitive response. If you have the odd experience of no symptoms, great, it can be helpful, but it may not override all the other experiences and the fear.
Brain retraining tries to interrupt the loop. It teaches safety in the body first, ideally (which is where I think GET fails as it skips this. Somatic tracking is a good tool that is unique to brain retraining that many find useful), once you have built in confidence of that, you can try moving more. You will likely get symptoms at first but you learn to experience them as your brain's opinion that you're in danger instead of anything being physically wrong. With gentle repetition, you can start to get experiences of exercising not creating symptoms and that builds more safety and more confidence.
We may not have lots of research but we do have thousands trying this work out and finding it helps them.
And these ideas explain much of severe M.E and why everything as diverse as talking/speaking/movement/some medications can provoke deterioration. It's all about what the brain is taking as danger and that can be quite individual. (And shows why some of you here can do some things physically while others can't and would crash. Because your brains have different priors and different levels of neurodivergence/sensitivity).