JaimeS
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
Are there any precedents in history, recent or not so recent?
Knowing this was coming, I've actually done a lot of research on this and will hopefully produce that more general article I mentioned, soon.
It's very common. "Tone policing" is the official name for saying that someone can protest but must do it nicely, or what they have to say ought to be dismissed, but typically the ideal way in which to protest, according to the dominant group, is not at all. We will never be quiet and polite enough because objecting at all will never be considered acceptable. And when you are totally quiet in hopes that people will change based off of your 'good behavior' we lapse into the next term.
"Respectability politics" wherein people both inside and outside a group will attempt to appease the larger group by promoting or engaging in behavior that is seen as 'ideal' by or even that mimics that of the dominant group. The term was initially used in reference to black politics in the US, but it has since seen wider use, and several articles and papers have been written that use the term in reference to disability and/or chronic illness.
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