It’s something that I think might be easy to miss in the rush to play nice and not be divisive. But I’m not sure it is acknowledged, for all sorts of reasons, that eg going through an extreme GEAt and CBT when ill or ten years of being left flopping round like a dying fish whilst the normal support systems available for other debilitating conditions were actively removed (including rumours that encouraged family and friends not just to not support but abandon) and bullying and exertion actively suggested to be imposed by anyone around (plus false accusations still not lifted of ‘being mad/hysterical and so on) to the chances anyone recovers.1. those who were harmed by or been through the GET and CBT generation and have had it eg decades need something different currently to newer diagnosed.
I think this is important.
such accusations affected access to all medical care and if others didn’t have that then I know and have watched them assume it must be an exaggeration being quite often the convenient thing. It only stands out when you collect a homogeneous group and notice it’s at least a significant minority. If you dilute that such pattern gets missed as being down to the condition, unlucky timing and then staff bring good or bad being the differentiator because within ‘all inc covid’ it looks like 5% and maybe it was the way they acted or comorbidities etc.
and there are genuinely things in long vivid not proven by time yet. Hopefully they won’t have the same windows for recovery not just missed but everyone around them encouraged to impose the wrong thing. Which is great. But those made permanent over decades matter. And the better managed bunch could be used to set the clsssic ‘doesn’t last longer than 3yrs’. Based on % that aren’t specific to the totally different regimes. I think there are generational differences with me/cfs due to timing of when over the last 50yrs you had your bad time. And the support and approach package then. And there’s a tendency towards convenience and numbers and collateral damage.
I don’t know whether it counts as being ‘in the tent’ properly or if you get caught up in making ‘greater good’ decisions
I just worry of me/cfs being used as an and also that should be grateful to be part of it. And their history being used as a tale of warning rather than the plight of those treated the exact wrong way for so long they won’t recover as they might have could still be useful for covid but rolling together creates a friction between those ‘preventing it happening’ vs those who can’t undo the situation. And that making for hard advocacy.
plus thanks to the appalling labelling me/cfs people have false records to clean to get their human rights properly returned. I just know even in me community how those untouched by this feel squeamish about getting involved ‘just in case’ and getting tarred with the stink and ‘maybe smoke and fire’ caution. I can see the pragmatism coming in if you are a group representing both and you think whinging about something in the past won’t help those it didn’t happen to etc.
I don’t know that hitching wagons together will improve this.
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