Simbindi
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
From very brief research I read onset of MS was between 20-50. Onset (or at least diagnosis) of ME is a broad spread from children to older people with peaks in 20s and 40s. There are people with ME who have worked just as there are people with MS who have younger onset and maybe haven’t worked. I suspect the age issue isn’t that much of a factor.
People are generally not interested in supporting research into a medical condition until they have experienced it, or see (and believe) how it affects a close family member or friend.
Many people with MS and Parkinsons whose onset starts in their 20's are still able to get a 20-30 year career, even as a high earning professional (I know people with both these conditions who have done so). Their illness doesn't often bring an immediate 50% reduction in their functioning if it is diagnosed early (except the more aggressive forms).
Getting ME in your teens or 20's pretty much robs you of a career and of the opportunity to become stable financially in adulthood (unless you are one of the lucky ones who fully recover). I'm speaking from experience here.
Additionally, many PWME get absolutely no sympathy or help, even with daily living, from their family members, much less any interest in raising funds for their charities or research (due to how ME presents and to the public narrative that surrounds it). It's not uncommon to be left by your partner, even if you have kids that need supporting. Again, speaking from experience here too.