It's good to hear the meeting was positive.
I tend to get worried by people who talk about 'activity management' as that management seems usually to include increasing activity - Esther Crawley uses that phrase I think. If it's genuine pacing, that's fine, but why don't they call it pacing.
There is a conspicuous disconnect between what the clinics describe and what patients say is happening in the worst cases. Perhaps they really do intend to tailor treatments for everyone, and be supportive, but over the years have started rushing things and getting defensive at patient pushback, and so more and more patients get given a cynical, prescriptive treatment as a result.
It's like there are two worlds. One the clinicians inhabit, and another patients inhabit. They seem completely different.
One of the women at our table sent her daughter to Crawley. She said Crawley started off quite good, but her paranoia and naivety got the best of her, and so now she's quite defensive and feels aggrieved that she isn't getting rewarded and celebrated for her work. As a result, her treatments have got worse too.
The psychiatrist on our table was from the Liverpool clinic. So hearing his account and comparing it to patient accounts was quite enlightening. I think there's an element of wilful ignorance going on, but they do seem relatively sympathetic to patients. The trouble is, they may not be saying what they truly believe, because they're experienced in avoiding that conflict.
It's like when I get in a taxi with a driver going on about politics, and it quickly becomes apparent he's racist and right-wing. I know instantly not to mention that my mum is a black Labour councillor. I don't mention that I'm a rabid socialist. I don't mention that I believe in a universal basic income as a solution to widespread inequality. I just nod and pray that there's no traffic. Otherwise I would have to have yet another argument about race or politics or both, and neither of us is going to change our opinion. This could be like that.