Kitty
Senior Member (Voting Rights)
How can I say “I could do X but I shouldn’t” and expect to get benefits?
Just to let you know I'm writing a couple of thoughts about this in the benefits thread, as it risks taking this one off topic.
How can I say “I could do X but I shouldn’t” and expect to get benefits?
I think that the newly diagnosed person needs to know that if they're much sicker for days or weeks or more after an activity or period of activity, then it is a sign that they've overdone it either immediately before or in the recent past and that they need to pay attention to what they did that may have triggered it. It's helpful for people to know that symptoms can start right away or be delayed, so that they make the connection between the offending activities and the consequences, and start to get a handle on the cumulative nature of it all. But to me it makes no sense to insist that only delayed PEM is PEM. (That's not directed at you, Kitty, it's just something that came up a lot earlier in the thread/factsheet discussion.)Yep, I understand that. The reason I keep poking at it (and I apologise, I know I'm not really getting us anywhere!) is that combining all overexertion symptoms into one phenomenon potentially makes it harder for newly diagnosed people, and their GPs, to describe and discuss them in a precise way. Aspects of it can feel really quite different, and that knowledge might be all a new patient has.
Maybe I'm imagining it and it doesn't really make it harder at all. It's difficult for us to cast off our own experience and put ourselves in the shoes of a struggling young person, a worried parent, or a doctor with more patients than they have time to see them.
Yeah, I think if you get those symptoms and they go away pretty soon after you stop talking then it's not PEM and cognitive fatigue is a good term for it. I started using "cognitive crash" for when those symptoms continue for days/weeks so that I could have a short-hand for carers. I can just text "Cog crash so text and gesture only" and they know we're in for a quiet few days/week.Yeah I’m more remarking on my lack of good name for it - I think I started using that because of the need to explain ‘and now this ends’ and because of the looks on the face of the other person as my speech changed significantly
ie I got into the habit of explaining myself (and wanted to focus on it being ‘I’m exhausted it affects my speech’ rather than if leaving that type of person to it them horribly suggesting some grim term alluding to going mad or ‘trauma’ or other nonsense people invent)
it’s exhaustion from a fstiguability fir me I guess in the sense I know I can’t really sit for twenty minutes and chat without it induces growing aches/pains through arms and feet and slowly curling body whilst my brain runs out and the sensory makes it painful to use my eyes and hurts my brain etc
but I don’t know why I separate cognitive from physical other than that the physical for me adds in a very specific pattern I’ve noticed. But the sensory and cognitive can be just as devastating (and cause the not being able to wake brain or body for days)
Yeah I thought some of them were okay though.Some of these are factually dodgy unfortunately.
And I’m getting really tired of describing PEM as only a worsening of symptoms.
But wait what is PEM if not a worsening of symptoms?
Yup. A worsening of function either directly or indirectly through getting more PEM by doing things you could do without PEM when not in PEM.The forum consensus seems to be to define PEM as a worsening of symptoms and function.
Ah, I must have missed or forgot those discussions. I've just been considering the NICE definition as more or less the best we've got:The forum consensus seems to be to define PEM as a worsening of symptoms and function.
But what exactly does 'function' mean? Objectively doing less activity while in a crash? Couldn't someone push through a crash if, for example, they have to still go to work? Would it not be PEM if their activity didn't change but their fatigue, brain fog, pain, etc increased?The worsening of symptoms that can follow minimal cognitive, physical, emotional or social activity, or activity that could previously be tolerated. Symptoms can typically worsen 12 to 48 hours after activity and last for days or even weeks, sometimes leading to a relapse. Post-exertional malaise may also be referred to as post-exertional symptom exacerbation.
This seems like a circular argument. 'PEM' is included in the definition to explain 'PEM'?A worsening of function either directly or indirectly through getting more PEM by doing things you could do without PEM when not in PEM.
The ability to perform an action or tolerate stimuli. Roughly.But what exactly does 'function' mean?
Yes. Loss of function is not required, but it’s often a part of it.Would it not be PEM if their activity didn't change but their fatigue, brain fog, pain, etc increased?
I guess I'm not understanding why 'symptoms' alone doesn't cover it. For one, inability to tolerate stimuli could definitely be described as a symptom (e.g. light insensitivity).The ability to perform an action or tolerate stimuli. Roughly.
Yes. Loss of function is not required, but it’s often a part of it.
PEM requires increased/new symptoms and can include loss of function.This seems like a circular argument. 'PEM' is included in the definition to explain 'PEM'?
When I’m in PEM, I don’t wash. I could wash, but that would make the symptoms worse. So it’s the anticipated consequence of the action that in itself makes me practically unable to perform the action, even though I’m not mechanistically unable to perform the action.But also, isn't the inability to perform an action wholly caused by the worsening of symptoms (fatigue, brain fog, etc)?
Hmm okay, so 'reduction in activity' can be due to worsened symptoms and/or to prevent further worsening of symptoms.When I’m in PEM, I don’t wash. I could wash, but that would make the symptoms worse. So it’s the anticipated consequence of the action that in itself makes me practically unable to perform the action, even though I’m not mechanistically unable to perform the action.
We have to think of the target audience and why we are doing the communicationI guess I'm not understanding why 'symptoms' alone doesn't cover it. For one, inability to tolerate stimuli could definitely be described as a symptom (e.g. light insensitivity).
But also, isn't the inability to perform an action wholly caused by the worsening of symptoms (fatigue, brain fog, etc)?
Yeah, I'm having trouble understanding what 'definition' means here.My understanding of PEM is a pattern of worsening of symptoms that does not fit normal time scales or proportionality. It is very likely to be associated with loss of 'function' but I don't see that as within the definition of PEM. If you are nauseous you cannot eat but being unable to eat is not part of the definition of nausea.
I think 'reduction in function' makes sense as a part of the definition/description of ME/CFS since that's the syndrome that describes everything going on. PEM (disproportionate worsening of symptoms after exertion) is one of the aspects of the syndrome. Reduction in function can be another aspect - a consequence of PEM being part of ME/CFS.It think that the reduction in function is such an integral part of the experience of living with PEM, that it should be included.
Or rather, it’s such an integral part of my experience of living with PEM. So I’m biased.
It’s also one of the most difficult things to explain - I can do something, but I can’t. Why? Because I live with PEM.